Pretty much wveryone is, especially females.
Yes and no. Women first and foremost want security and a confident man. There's plenty of girls who are wealthy and beautiful but date a guy who's middle class and average looking but is confident and can atleast provide a secure existence. A girl will.much rather date someone who's confident, good in bed (which generally comes with confidence, and not a two pump chump) and has a job, even if he's not making a ton of money than a guy.whos very good looking but is broke, lazy, etc. As girls age looks tend to become less and less important.
The gold.diggers are only gold digging because they found a sucker who isn't confident but can provide security, in this case financial. Gotta have both. Even if the girl is dating a guy who is providing her with everything and she's totally using him, shell.end up.dumping him or cheating on him anyway for a guy who is confident even if he doesn't have the same.means.
Learn to be assertive and confident and you wont get ripped off and you'll find a girl in no.time..staring at a girl on and off then when her eyes meet yours looking away only to talk to her later and try to flirt will never work