But that has nothing to do with my book recommendation
You keep recommending books when I have "real life" experience.
You are not asking a question and it is obvious that you are not interested in investigating it at all.
I have had friends that have made comments..I dont need a book to tell me, you evidently do.
You just want more things that backup your already made up mind.
See above.
I have offered an alternative but you choose to ignore it and come out with something about Asians.
No, what you did was "tell" me to read about something, when in reality, I have experienced something you have not.
Keep calling me a racist, I dont really care, as you can see I once upon a time had friends who were asian and realised what they were about...We make our own minds up as we go along in life, we dont just assume, thats the way I was brought up.