I agree, seeing how certain individuals communicate their thoughts here, stronger responses from the Polish community are understandable.
I'm not surprised that Poles despise Polish-Americans of the 3rd/4th/5th generation - the examples here (racism, blinkered view of Polish life, attempting to stir up tension with our neighbours, etc) show us just how utterly out of sync they are with Poland.
It's certainly true that their version of patriotism seems to be rather confused - despite claiming to be Polish, the ones on this forum seem rather unwilling to actually do a damned thing to help out, apart from stirring up racial tension.