crucru 13 Nov 2011 #1Hi.I' am a latin women, living in poland close to 5 years with a polish man. I have two daughters they have polish nationality.Like a couple we have to much problems ...i really dont know ..if is normal in Poland insulting and making women feel bad, for me this is a psychological abuse...he said he has too much strees and cous of that he is that way ....and he hit me ones.....so i have really enough.Like a forenger i have not a work permision so...i am manege to found small jobs where there is no need to have papers. Actually he has lot of money and I do not need to work. But I prefer to have my money so I can decide to buy and what not...ok ....so; i tried he understan that we have a bad relationship and it is best to be separated. I said I prefer go to my country with my daughters and i not want he pay me nothing for aliments ,etc, but he persists... he wants girls live in poland, i really have not problem at all whit this..., but he is all the time making problem about he is payint 1000 zl for girls aliments and apartment but....how can i pay if i have not a work permis? how i can be independent economic if i just able to make money from few spanish lessons?, and cous i live in one of his apartmens he said he have the right to we and stay the long he wants at my place cous is his. everything is so confusing...I just know I have enough of this....and i want go to cort...he said he has lot of money so i have not chance to winn in the cort..cous if is necesary he will pay for have girls with him.... i have not money really for pay a good prived lowyer ..i really dont know how to manege this situation....i just want have custody of my girls and take the first fly home i dont want money nether aliments....i just want pace.