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Posts by jakub_a  

Joined: 27 Mar 2017 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 14 Nov 2020
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Posts: 13 		From: USA, California
Speaks Polish?: No
Interests: Fathers Rights, son is in Poland

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jakub_a   
27 Mar 2017
Law / Trying to get visitation and partial custody of my son in Poland. (Fathers rights?) [12]

My ex left the United States pregnant and did not tell me until she left. Since then I have been trying to get visitation and partial custody of my son. I have a lawyer in Poland, but the process is slow and it looks like the courts favor the mother. She limited me to seeing him on Skype once a month for 10 minutes and now she has stopped doing that. I send her money every month for him and am trying everything I can to see him.

Is there anyone else out there in the same situation that can give me some advice? It's been a year and a half and I'm still trying.

Please help
jakub_a   
29 Mar 2017
Law / Trying to get visitation and partial custody of my son in Poland. (Fathers rights?) [12]

than

She is definitely spiteful towards me. The main problem is that our son deserves to grow up knowing both his mother and father. I told here that there are a lot of guys out there that just plain walk away from the situation and don't care. I'm doing what I can because I want to be there for him and give him what he needs. And I believe that includes having a relationship with BOTH parents.

I know that it is HIGHLY unlikely that I will get them to move back to the U.S. But that doesn't change the fact that he should opportunity to visit with me and get to know me.
jakub_a   
28 Jun 2017
Law / Trying to get visitation and partial custody of my son in Poland. (Fathers rights?) [12]

I read the book and actually found the guy on FB. He hasn't seen his daughter in 10 years. I got a court order in April saying that I get to see my son on Skype every Wednesday and Saturday. Also, I'm supposed to be able to go visit with 2 weeks notice to her. She has yet to obey the court order.

This is ridiculous! If I miss a payment or stop payment, there is hell to pay. But she she withhold him from me the punishment is minimal.
jakub_a   
13 Nov 2020
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

I would be very careful. I dated a Polish woman, we were together for 4 years and it was a difficult relationship. To make a long story short, she got pregnant and left the country and went back to Poland. She knew I wanted a family and took it away from me. She called me from the plane saying that she was leaving. It has now been 5 years and I rarely get to see my son. All Poland has done is take from me. I have paid child support since the beginning and have done everything i can to be there for my son. I use all of my vacation time and any extra money to go see him. It took the Polish courts 3 years to declare me the father and only care about getting money from me. My son is growing up without a father because of her selfishness.
jakub_a   
13 Nov 2020
Language / Polish Language Exchange Thread [133]

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Learn Polish



Can anyone help me find a tutor or teacher so I can learn Polish?
jakub_a   
13 Nov 2020
Travel / Need to fly asap to Poland from California [8]

Sorry, it was a little while ago and I didn't re check it. What paperwork do i need to get in? Because, what I have seen is no one can get into Poland unless you are a polish citizen.
jakub_a   
14 Nov 2020
Love / How Do You Feel About a Black man marrying Polish Women? [157]

@Mr Grunwald
@Ironside

I'm not a troll, and I would not wish this on my worst enemy. My son is growing up without his father. And that bullshit on saying "feeling safe" to go home and have the baby. I also disagree with the 9 out of 10 comment.

Yes, I feel and am probably a dumb ass for dating this woman. I say be careful, because I was unaware that this happens more often than not. I have paid for my son since the beginning. Click on my profile and you will see things I have been trying to do. I have talked to many other guys with a similar issue, Poland HEAVILY favors the mother. This is why she went home, for total and complete control. We were broken up for over a month when we found out she was pregnant. And yes, men have no rights until the baby is born. And then we have very little rights after that. I even talked to a guy who moved to Poland, he never got to have a relationship with his daughter. He wrote this book: amazon.com/Idiots-Liars-Psychos-Me-Bizarre/dp/1520689349

Maybe i should not have said anything, I usually use this forum to find out info on travel and advice on things that can help me with my situation. I guess kick me out of the thread.