Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hi Guys, just want to say thank you for everything for your advice and opinion really appreciate, To Meagan thanks a lot, please don't take it too seriously. About him supporting me i don't care about it I can work to support the child. Will see you guys next time, its time for me to go back to my parents soon coz they don't want me to work anymore will have to take good care of my pregnancy so will be going home to my parents they want me to stay with them as I live by myself. Am just lucky to have a parents like them and being the only girl in the family is the big plus. (smile) I do really feel my parents support and love. will see you sometimes here again. Take care everybody!

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

hi meagan, why are you so angry about it? my family does not depend on him. its just happen that i fall inlove with this person coz he is such a charming good looking gentleman. Guys Polish are nice people! What ever race we came from we have different situation in our life. Just cool off dont be so angry about it. I will let you know in the future what happen. Do not compare someone in what race he/she came from. Every is different and unique (smile)! coming to England soon to meet his ex wife and family! ( '_' ) i guess tha feeling of being inlove in their relationship fades! Thanks again Meagan for the responce nice name by the way!

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

he will be sad and angry, i think coz i dont listen to him.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hi Meagan, they dont live in Poland for a long time already and my bf is been coming back to be with me not just once or twice in one year... and it was my choice not to get married yet whats the hurry? and yes i am different from other women as i follow my heart and choose to be with someone whom i love than being with someone becuase of money, and have the luxury in life..thats does not make me happy! He knows what am posting here ask me to stop but hmm this website is very interesting hearing other people opinion about life, so common dont take it seriously its me who is in this sitaution. And thank you for sharing your part! Actually he is more excited to see our first baby and his son wants to have baby boy brother. Yes polish guy values so much with their family but too bad his ex-wife only concentrate her life with herself and the kids and just want him to work and to support for the family. she forgot that husband needs her attention, respect, care and love from the wife. Intimacy, respect is very important in a the marriage and if couples are lack of that marriage wont last. Needs two to Tango!

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Thank you Amthyst, God knows that I am not lying what I share in this furom I just want to share my story and want to hear other people opinion and advices whatever it is, maybe it is just mis communication I apologize for that, but its ok and it does not mean that I will stop being a member on this website because someone told me to stop posting here. I like PolishFurom! Yes Amthyst you are right WHATEVER WILL BE WILL BE. BE HAPPY AND FOLLOW WHAT YOUR HEART SAY.. LIKE WHAT my bf told me last night that time will tell! Thank you guys!

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hi again Meagan, ok as you wish I will stop right here sorry but you sounds so angry. I wont say anything anymore. thank you Meagan.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hi Meagan. thank you for your message. My goodness if i know he is still married i would not continue this relationship with him and just ignore him. It is not in my nature to push myself to someone it is him who wont stop contacting me. So may times i kick him out of my parents house to leave me alone but he wont.. ALL I KNOW NOW IS HE IS DIVORCED AND NO WE ARE NOT MARRIED YET... NOT INTO GETTIN MARRIED YET.. LATER IT WILL HAPPEN ONCE HE IS DONE IN HIS SCHOOL. I know i am not fantasizing it is real Meagan...he was with me for 4 months 24hours a day he just have to come back for work and his study. And it does not matter what origin we came from coz this can happen to any race and maybe even worse. And no he did not fall in love with me because i spread my legs for him he is very respectful to me and i am not what you think. I behave well enough just my destiny that i fall inlove with this man. I am strong enough to face the whole thing even if he and i will not be togetehr in the future. Meagan I will let you know in the future how is everything if u are still interested... (smile)..

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hi Atosha, yes ofcourse the baby has the right to know about his/her siblings. i want my baby to grow up with love and not hate, make friends. If he and I will not be together I will make sure that my child has respect, love and care for his father even if his father and i are not together. Sooner or later truth will come out if he is telling the truth or not. All I know now is I love him and I know he loves me too. And i will be faithful and wait until I can and still have this feelings for him. It is not easy but I choose and gave my love to him. I just need to hold on until he will finish his study i have waited for 3 years so i guess i can wait for another year. Time will tell!

USA, Canada / Do Polish guys like American girls? [103]

hi xyla, so what happen? are you guys did have a chance to really know each other?

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hello xyla, i met him on a dating website. are you filipina?

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Boracay is far from where i live never been there but i have heard it is a very nice place one of the tourist spot in the Philippines....yes thats what he said that they got divorced early this year.. I was never married and i dont know if i ever get married as of now i am really broken hearted about this issue. but i will be a mother soon early next year.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

I am from Leyte, yes i live in the Philippines. (correction from my previous message) what I mean is i will not deprived my child to know who is his/her father.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

the child has the right to know who is his/her father and i will deprieved that from my child. all i want to know is if everything his telling is true specially the divorce and i know truth will come out. if his still lying he will never see me or the child.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Hi czbi, thank you for sharing your story it is a sad story but yes you are right who knows one day you guys will meet again and hopely you guys are still available for eachother and I hope too that this time he knows more english so you guys can communicate with each other. He and I got engaged like 2 years ago but I told him I discard that as it was not right coz at that time he was still married to his ex the last time he came back her just a couplke month ago he wanted to get engaged again or get married that I did not agree with him as it was still shocking for me and hurting me of what happen. We have no problem with communicating with each other as I understand english a bit. everyday we do not miss a day of talking or sending offlines on YM, will see how it goes between him and me. I just want to make sure that his family knows everything about us specially his kids and he is divroce then I can be with him for good. Yes I love him so much but I am willing to give up for the sake of his family if its not true that he is not divorce. I will not give up and stop loving him until I will find out. thats how much i love him. sure sounds crazt for other peolpe but guys common love is blind.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

thank you guys for your opinion and advices...

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

hello again guys.. thanks again for the responce.. I meet him online..after four months of talking online he decided to come and visit me.. so that how it started and from that day we talked everyday calls, chat online or sms messaging..I am awake but the hard thing is it is not easy to forget someone you really care and love and so important to you. I tried it many times but he is always there. I wish it is eays and start again and just move on.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

hi guys, waaah now i feel like crying, ok ok yah i am not 100% sure that his family knew about me already as I only spoke to him but not his kids and wife.. but guys he seems so real and true of what he is telling me.. everytime he will share with me about his family situation and he is crying it makes my heart brake as it really seems they dont care about him... truth will alwasy come out. . . sure i wanted to talk to his wife and really wants to know the truth but I have no right to do that. but if i will find out that he is just making up stories then he will loose someone who truly loves him. he knows i am real and honest with him even though we are apart i am faithful to him.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

Yes she knows about me already and her kids too but not about the the baby..

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

will have early next year... not out yet.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

thanks shewolf, you got a point maybe i put too much of my emotion and my heart in it. yes sometimes i am thingking that he did lie about his family probably his divorce too is a lie well god knows i am honest and true to him i choose him because i love him inspite of all those good opportunity to have a better life. really sad and broken hearted but i have to be strong for my baby. Thank you so much guys am just hoping that he will realize of whathe is doing.

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

yes as we have a long distance relationship.. like once a years he willvisit mefor 4 months and stayed together as a couple. I feel his love and support for me in everything. his reason was he wants mein his life and doesnot wanttoloseme asitoldhim fromt he start that i prefer tomeet someone who is single/divorce but no kids. is this enough reason to lie tome? last time he was here he showed me a divorce paper. so now he is divorced as he said but still living with his family because offinancial issue and he is the only one working forthe family. I know god is showing that he is true to mebut untilnowitsstillhurting me becauseof this.. but ilove him

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

yes, same guy been for almost 3 years now ...

Love / Filipina married a Polish man, need more advice [90]

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Love / Filipina having a relationship with a Polish Man [95]

yes i agree coz he really works hard and still find time to talk to me before going to his work everyday and even in the weekends. are polish guys are conservative? coz he seems like.. thank you by the way for the reply..where you rom LAGirl?

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