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Posts by Lenka  

Joined: 17 Nov 2009 / Female ♀
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From: Polska
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Lenka   
8 Feb 2024
Law / Rejecting Inheritance [44]

Why did the PF bootlicker call me an idiot

1- because it's true.
2- because you claimed something that wasn't true in the Polish legal system.
Lenka   
7 Feb 2024
Law / Rejecting Inheritance [44]

If I want to. If I don't want to inherit, I don't have to.

Well, you'd be free to argue that after you've been arrested for not settling your debts.
Lenka   
7 Feb 2024
Law / Rejecting Inheritance [44]

Wills are not common in Poland. But there is 6 months to reject the estate.
Lenka   
7 Feb 2024
Law / Rejecting Inheritance [44]

In the USA you are not responsible for the debts of your deceased parents.

In Poland you are. You can reject the inheritance all together, accept it only to the level of possible debt or accept it completely.
Lenka   
26 Jan 2024
Study / Various education and school issues in Poland. Opinions, stories, controversies. [847]

That's my point

Really? I thought your point was that is should be done earlier and given as one grade. Mine is that you can have both and if you want average you can do it yourself.

This is incorporated in the next iteration of PISA

Do you have any idea how they will measure that.

It makes the exams too high stakes and encourages cramming and cheating...

Yes but it is also gives some a chance. I am like that. I usually had lower grades and better exam results.

I generally think that homework, stricter school etc may be a bit better results at preparing for real world.
Lenka   
25 Jan 2024
Po polsku / Dyrdymałki o Niczem 2 [141]

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Lenka   
13 Jan 2024
Travel / Poland in photo riddles - part 3 [166]

@Poloniusz
Sorry no, you are as useless in this as in everything else.

Torq & Paulina

Correct! Inspired by Atch and my laundry :D



Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

@ Bobko
I think just two would be necessary:
Outlaw the birth control and forbid women earning money.
Women have less kids simply because they can. They can stop getting pregnant and they can support themselves so they don't have to relay on husband, kids.

p0rn on all channels from 8 to midnight.

From what I know **** addiction actually decreases sex life and makes it less satisfactory.
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

As already pointed out women have a lower participation rate in the workforce but a higher absenteeism rate when compared to men.

But you described it as a personal issue and shouldn't affect their working hours. If that is the case why they don't pick up the kids?

Most women don't trust men around children anyway regardless of how close the relationship is.

And why do you think they trust their sisters, mothers ect?

For any women who do show interest in children they either want to have an "amazing career" first and then have only one child in their 30s or 40s

Never saw such a manifesto in feminist movements and most definitely not in Poland where birth rates are dropping like crazy.

you're not being honest.

I am. My point is exactly that- tax system don't care and ask you to pay accordingly. Should everyone go around complaining about taxes of the people earning less?

the worn-out feminist meme

No, it was a man. His son is 4 now.
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

They can still put in a full work day after taking care of personal stuff so they don't have to reduce their hours.

So can man get I don't see then that often with their kids

otherwise the topic of men not doing more domestic work for women wouldn't have even been brought up.

1- it affects those that actually did start families. More and more women don't. And crack on. But you don't like that either, do you?

2- it was Iron who started this.

Since men earn more than women by virtue of working more than women then men are de facto paying more in taxes.

Generally tax affects those who earn more, more.
But ok, women stop giving birth and work equally-happy? Ah no, right? Because you don't want women to actually go that way, do you?

I actually met this dad few months ago. He had two wives, divorced with the first, second died when the kid was 3 (mind you that is already pretty big kid, and things usually get easier at this time). He said after being a full time dad for few months he apologised to his first wife for how he was when they were married because he has no idea how she managed it all with 3 kids.
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

I've never seen a husband lifting a couch just so his wife could do the vacuuming lol

Me neither. I lifted a couch on many occasions like this if I lost something under but never to clean-much better to move. And I would still rather do that job. Half a minute and done Vs vacuuming the whole place? Deal.

@Poloniusz

Noone said that all those money go into family budget. But I would be more than happy to go 50/50 in both (if he earns more he can keep the rest for himself). But that means taking paternity leave, child sickness 50/50, cooking, cleaning, diapers, mopping up vommit etc.

Usually women reduce their hours to drop off/pick up the kid from childcare, they take the care when kids are sick etc.
I actually know a couple when she works and he stays at home- she loves the piece of mind (still does most at home but hey ho). Not to worry when your kids starts coughing. Not stressing the the traffic is bad and you may not pick up your child on time etc.

The funny thing is- women have less kids, marry less often and crack on with their lives ( meaning they also pay for their own upkeep) so everybody is happy, right? Ah no, you don't want that either...
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

just in case you get an unwomanly impulse to abandon your domestic duties. A fabulous find!

I guess I better find myself one of those!

I've never seen a husband lifting a couch just so his wife could do the vacuuming lol

Me neither. I lifted a couch on many occasions like this if something fell under but for any proper cleaning it's simply better to move it. And if I had to choose I would rather lift the couch. Half a minute Vs 10, 15 or 20 minutes of vacuuming the whole place.
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

Get a grip and don't pull all women or all men into your private issues. Simple!

The I would advice you to go back to your post #569 and tell yourself that:

Almost as when lazy women tune in and whine about home chores...and men?!

@ gumishu
Disgusting
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

he is working his ass off and paying the bills,

And the women do what at work?

after all, there is a vacuum clean and a washing machine

Exactly, can't man accomplish even usage of such devices? (Not to mention all the other chores that are still manual e.g. scrubing toilet). Nah, you are just lazy and that is that.
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

Seems to me that women do not know what love is or that the 'concept' of love is different for women.

Seems to me the man want

some selfless caring

love but don't understand women would want the same. Unless of course for man caring is looking from the couch when your wife is scrubbing the toilet, vacuuming, cleaning the windows etc
Lenka   
12 Jan 2024
Life / Has feminism and lesbianism progressed in Poland? [644]

And I'm really sorry some women would like to experience any kind of love when your husband doesn't want you to work yourself out when he can do his part. Assuming his IQ isn't low enough to wash the dishes etc that is