Love / Are there Polish women who date black guys? [281]

I'm Polish and live in NYC. I was dating dark Brazilian and he was one of the funniest ppl i know. Since I grew up in Poland and in US I don't hang out much with Polish (i just live and work in non-Polish areas), I didn't know what to expect from my ppl - would they accept it or not. My observation is that girls tend to be more tolerant, guys are more jealous for their polish girls. In very Polish communities, such a couple drives a lot of attention (but, similarly I felt being the only one white person among Blacks). I asked my Polish friend who lives in Polish neighborhood about it. He said: "Naaah, Polish girl and Black guy is so on on the street!" - well, I guess we are changing=]

Unfortunately, I cannot say anything about how it is in Poland - but, now I'm curious too!

Love / Are Polish Women cold and aloof? [249]

Heh, guys always tell me that i look like arogant and mad biatch, before they even talk to me. they say it's because of my look (tall, skinny, blond and serious w/o smile. more, they say that i look like someone who knows that is attractive and therefore unreachable = racist). But when they finally talk to me, they find me funny and very warm. (usually they end up saying: OMG, u're actually a NICE person:P)

So - in defense of our polish cold look - physical look does not always say the truth about the person;)

then, i think that we - polish girls - are colder and less "touchy" than other nationalities (of course with few exception). We won't be physically all over the guy. It's just because we expect the guy to "do" the job and go after girl (even in a relationship).

By the way, my sis always tells me (she has a polish boyfriend) that the girl cannot love the guy more than he (or at least show it) because once the guy sees he "has" the girl in his hands, she becomes less attractive for him and he desires her less... (does it mean that insecurity is sexy...?)