Losing possible friends first, then start to lose something material.
Poles won`t lose Serbians. Its impossible.
But, approach will change. We learning, I see this among our intellectual circles, how are we Serbians more free then our Polish and Russian brethren and all other Slavs altogether. It even surprising how deeply you all are enslaved. Only Czechs shows some of freedom but even they seek for guidance.
Its clear to me how Russians failed to influence you Poles (or Poles to influence Russians). Sure, aside reason that Poles were sedentary Sarmats much longer then Russians (Scythian Sarmats). Simple, you both were entrenched in defense of your way of Christianity, while due to historical circumstances absolutely failed to preserve most important thing- your own ancestral spirituality. So, I quite understand how Russians (their elite) who thought of itself of Third Rome, failed to ``explain`` things to Poles. Wrong. You both are so wrong. You both defend something, killing each others in the name of something what have only one desire- to assimilate you completely, to make you vanish, if you want. No, don`t get me wrong. Problem isn`t in Christianity. No. Problems are false priests on all sides who wants to profit on it. See, for that, to protect yourself from that, one must have deeper roots. That, what we Serbians kept alive and have it in itself, what you Poles and Russian lost. Its harder to manipulate you when you have roots..... And when you are hungry enough, when you recognize your reality, you shell get it from us. You just have to ask and copy paste it, on your own Christian way, just little bit to upgrade it to yourself.
That, or you shall stop to be Poles and Russian. Then, without you, we shell finally die, no matter all.