My parents are straight off the boat polish, and let me tell you they are racist.
My dear Angiee, I believe first of all, you have to cut your parents some slack, and calm down a bit, since when does caring for the best possible future of one's child equate to racism? In my opinion, if they didn't care about you at all, then they would not have reprimanded you or bothered to advise you on this issue in the first place.
I have an Albanian guy friend. Not only did she give me a 3 hour long lecture of why Albanians are bad for me but she also tattletaled to my polish dad that I am considering a relationship with an Albanian guy.
For how long have you known him? How do you know his feelings for you are sincere... perhaps he is looking for a chance to obtain a Polish EU passport so he could travel without having to apply for a visa accross Europe. Secondly 80% of the narcotics trade in Europe is distributed by the Albanian mafia so it could also be wise to check his background, sources of income ect. Not to mention that in their tribal society a relationship with a girl is strictly forbidden before the arranged marriage, violating this law could lead to death they even have blood revenge oaths that until this day and age are still in use. So perhaps he would like to just use you for something that in his country before the arranged marriage would not be permitted.
My dad has grounded me for as long as I have an Albanian boyfriend just because of his nationality.
Believe me you are overreacting, this is nothing, if Crow was in your dad's place for dating a Shiptar, you would probably be disowned, written off completely & removed from the inheritance will altogether. LOL
Let alone, they have never seen his face, But yet they have a fire inside them that wants me to get rid of him just because of his nationality. It is truly disgusting and I don't know what to do.
What happens when for example your boyfriend starts to feel the call of Allah and decides to go on his path to join ISIS? Are you willing to follow him and leave the comforting life that Poland has to offer for a place like Al-Raqqah
, as we Crnogorci have a great saying which I think you will get "Bogu iza nogu" ?
Maybe your parents believe it is better to prevent, then to cure after. As long as you live under their roof and they pay your school fees ofcourse they believe they are entitled to have a say in such affairs. When you are independent financially and otherwise then nobody will be able to interfere in your decisions. But if something doesn't turn out the way you expected, whose door will be the first you will knock on to ask for help and support? Boyfriends come and go but you only have a single mom and dad that you cannot choose so you should respect them more. Because after all, nobody can love you more then them.