Was this directed towards me?
No. I posted it earlier. It applies to all adopted persons. Based on my stats, people don't like to be found. If somebody told me that I was adopted, my answer would be, OK, I am cool with it. What's for dinner? Zero relevance.
My first question after the suggestion to find my birth "parents" would be what do I do with them if I find them? What if they tell me to just go away?
What if they feel like crap about giving their kids up? What's in it for them to have such a reunion? Are you going to bring them here and watch them suffer from culture shock? I would want to answer all those what-if questions before the contact.