The code words to look for are:
No, the code words are: I, Me, I, me, I'm, I, me.
As new generations come along and make their own place, many long-standing patrons decide that the place is no longer for them and move on.
Exactly what happened here Atch.
When this place first started it had a much younger crowd around Paulina's age, between 18 - 25.
Many of them were here to improve on their English as it was their second language.
The B.Bullies lorded over them with their brilliance by belittling them for as much as spelling a word wrong.
This rocked the confidence of many of those younger members so they started leaving one by one.
The hardcore ones stayed challenging and calling out these crop failures to the point the crop failures started getting beat at their own game.
Diminish, Gang up on, Intimidate, Shame, Lie, and Belittle.
This caused very toxic meltdowns by some of the members of the B.Club to the point of crossing the line by being beyond filthy and vomit inducing.
They pried and pried trying to get into your personal life to mock you with (Lazarus) yet came unglued when their pictures were posted and personal failures in life divulged.
That was the turning point in this forum.
They finally had to deal with a much older crowd like we have now that they couldn't intimidate like they did the kids.