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How to marry an American women?


Guest  
19 Jan 2009 /  #1
hello everyone. I need help... ok here is the deal.. I meet wonderful women 2 years ago and we know already we wanna spend our life eachother but... my student visa is expired and im illegal now. So we decided we get merried then i can be legall go back to school find work bla bla bla.. We want to get married for now without church and very quietly just for make me legall here. My question is if this is possible and where we can go?? Where i can find place to get married without church? please help me
friko22 - | 9  
19 Jan 2009 /  #2
Its very important for me help me people (sorry for my bad english)
polishgirltx  
19 Jan 2009 /  #3
you have to get a marriage permit ( in the court)... then get married (in the court)... and you'll receive a marriage license by mail (from a court)...

i think :/
friko22 - | 9  
19 Jan 2009 /  #4
So what?? i should go to court?
polishgirltx  
19 Jan 2009 /  #5
i should go to court?

well, yes.... in your county...
friko22 - | 9  
19 Jan 2009 /  #6
what kind of permit u talking about?
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
19 Jan 2009 /  #7
where are you living?

some states have a local courthouse where they have the marriage liscense and a
justice of peace right there to marry you. its pretty easy, but there is a fee for this
so depends on the state .. Ohio has courthouses to get married in jiffy and so does
indiana.. not sure where else.
friko22 - | 9  
19 Jan 2009 /  #8
we living in Chicago but im not worry about fees.. im worry about what i should do to make things right. What kind of papers i need and make myself being here legall step by step. I know its not will be easy
Joker 2 | 2,555  
19 Jan 2009 /  #9
we living in Chicago but im not worry about fees

Do as Patrycja suggested go to city hall or any county court house.
I assume she is a legal US citizen, or I dont think they will do it??
polishgirltx  
19 Jan 2009 /  #10
What kind of papers

both of your DL and SSN...?
Joker 2 | 2,555  
19 Jan 2009 /  #11
birth certificate or passport will do also, definetly SS card
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
19 Jan 2009 /  #12
im worry about what i should do to make things right. What kind of papers i need and make myself being here legall step by step. I know its not will be easy

lets see what we can find for you to do this the right way. :)

hang in there. :)
friko22 - | 9  
19 Jan 2009 /  #13
Yes she is Us citizen and i have DL and SSN. My next question is where i should after when we get married? Are am I legall in US after go when we get married?
polishgirltx  
19 Jan 2009 /  #14
Are am I legall in US after go when we get married?

no... you have to send all your papers to the INS... you better get a lawyer...
friko22 - | 9  
19 Jan 2009 /  #15
Thats the point i know lawyer will be cost me a lot and i dont think i can afford that now. Thats why im looking for help here
polishgirltx  
19 Jan 2009 /  #16
i know lawyer will be cost me a lot and i dont think i can afford that now.

if you go to the lawyer only for consultation, it'll cost you up to $100...and the lawyer will tell you what to do...
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
19 Jan 2009 /  #17
ohiobar.org/pub/lycu/index.asp?articleid=542

I found this for u although it applies to the state of ohio.. you will have to go to the
office near you ( apply for green card) and then the other forms mentioned in the
above link.

:)
friko22 - | 9  
19 Jan 2009 /  #18
$100 its not that bad... but im sure one lawyer visit is enough

I have got F-1 visa from Poland it was work and travel program.. after when i finish my contract work in US i decided to stay in US and im became ilegall emigrant. I have been planing stay here few mounths over my visa but.. i meet my girlfriend we follow in love. She is ready to marry me and make me legall also US citizen but im scare if i make some mestake processing my status i will be deported even we will be married already witch i dont want to this happen.. I know also my f1 visa is expired and if I start apllying for green card something bad can happen..
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
19 Jan 2009 /  #19
I know also my f1 visa is expired and if I start apllying for green card something bad can happen..

If you have a U.S. citizen fiance, that person may submit a form I-129f to CIS to petition for you as her fiance.

this tells you what to do. I dont know what state you live so I cant find links to help
you go to the right places.. each states office is different.

if you live close to vegas, you can go get married in a church or by elvis.. now that
would be something to write home about :)
friko22 - | 9  
20 Jan 2009 /  #20
I'm living in chicago, il

So.. any help??
time means 5 | 1,309  
20 Jan 2009 /  #21
put on your best togs (clothes) hit the disco and show off your best moves. the women will come flocking and you will have to fight them off with a big stick, easy.
osiol 55 | 3,922  
20 Jan 2009 /  #22
It looks like there has been an error here. It may have been a spelling mistake or a grammatical error, or possibly both.

How to Marry un-American women

Don't go to America to meet women. Go somewhere else. The less Americans the better, just in case you accidentally fall in love with an American woman. I'm not sure who the most un-American women are. Mongolians possibly. Avoid Ulaan-Baatar as there might be more than the national average number of Americans there.

How to Marry American women

It is advisable to train for the priesthood. This is not an easy undertaking as it involves devoting your whole life to God, and may involve vows of celibacy. However, once fully trained, if you're not already there, move to America, get a parish (or similar), and marriage ceremonies will be amongst your duties. There are a lot of American women living in America who wish to get married. Many require the services of a priest in order for them to get married to their partners in a good and godly manner.

How to Marry an American woman

See above. When you have already become a priest, you are pretty much "in the role" for life. Leaving the priesthood is an exception rather than the norm, and it is often frowned upon. It is worth mentioning that there are also civil marriages that do not require religious institutions, but I'm afraid I can't help you with information about how to find such a job.
dcchris 8 | 432  
20 Jan 2009 /  #23
I dont know for sure but when you apply for legal immigrant status after marriage surely they will check your current status. that being illegal then I would think you would have a problem...
friko22 - | 9  
20 Jan 2009 /  #24
this tells you what to do. I dont know what state you live so I cant find links to help
you go to the right places.. each states office is different.

if you live close to vegas, you can go get married in a church or by elvis.. now that
would be something to write home about :)

Did u find out something new?

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