Respecting other people is not a dictatorship, is a democracy, discriminating is a known characteristic of a dictatorship...
This is simply not true, democracy means sometimes terror of majority, while dictatorship, monarchy may be more liberal than many western democracies. Take a look at Liechteinstein.
there is a difference between a gossip and and slander.
Yes but pedał and gej have exactly the same meaning, so this is not a slander. The first is simply considered rude. You cannot fine people for using rude language. this is insanity. If everybody would go to court with such cases, courts would lack time to judge about serious issues. I was verbally offended many times (like most of people) but I never even considered such option.