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Adult movie producers looking for 'actresses' in Poland or just a weirdo?


plk123 8 | 4,148  
29 Sep 2008 /  #31
is it possible that some write thing on here to get other posters' goat?
polishgirltx  
29 Sep 2008 /  #32
is it possible

it's normal here...
osiol 55 | 3,922  
29 Sep 2008 /  #33
goat

Who know if our goats are safe?

The bloke was obviously a perv of some sort. It certainly would be recommendable to inform the police but not to expect sirens and to see him being dragged away in handcuffs. I'm sure many of us have seen the lady in the Simpsons who, at the slightest sign of ensuing panic, leaps up and screams

THINK OF THE CHILDREN!
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
29 Sep 2008 /  #34
the opinion of some people in this thread, that this kind of behavior is acceptable, is disturbing...

I agree

is it possible that some write thing on here to get other posters' goat?

probably, but I doubt the original poster was trying to get someones goat
when hes basically asking our opinions on a disturbing incident..
tzark - | 15  
29 Sep 2008 /  #35
majority of the posters in this forum suck
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
30 Sep 2008 /  #36
is it illegal to talk about sex?

Not if it's between two people who know each other and agree to talk about it. In this context (woman alone with a strange man who might become violent) it constitutes some form of abuse. If someone did that to my wife I'd be stamping his face into the tarmac

besides, there is nothing wrong with porn.

Find a sexual partner. Polaco

this happens all the time all over the world. there is nothing unique about this. and there are plenty willing participants

Then the willing participants can go to porn studios and sign themselves up rather than being press ganged at work.
Daisy 3 | 1,225  
30 Sep 2008 /  #37
there was no harassment that i can tell from this story.

She felt harrassed, that's why she was so upset. If the person feels harrassed, then that constitutes harrassment.
ParisJazz - | 172  
30 Sep 2008 /  #38
Not if it's between two people who know each other and agree to talk about it.

Are you an orthodox priest in disguise?

In this context (woman alone with a strange man who might become violent) it constitutes some form of abuse.

Amen.

I suppose you really are then.

PJ
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
30 Sep 2008 /  #39
Are you an orthodox priest in disguise?

Paris, we both know that if you were working alone in a shop and a middle aged woman came up to you and started bugging you to make porn films with her then you'd be crying like a baby for your mummy to come and save you.
ParisJazz - | 172  
30 Sep 2008 /  #40
Your answer is irrelevant to the question I asked and I am older than what you seem to imply.

and I may add that your mr-nice-guy puritanism smacks of utter hypocrisy.

PJ
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
30 Sep 2008 /  #41
Oh sorry, You want to work in porn films then?

MB
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
30 Sep 2008 /  #42
polaco, you'd most likely be singing a different tune if this happened to a woman you had any emotional attachment to, plutonic or fleeting or otherwise.

Nonetheless when looking at the legal basis for action you may be right about people over reacting by calling the police as it may be hard to prove he was doing anything illegal by merely asking. Resorting to the police makes us into babies that need big brother to take care of this, it would be a far better world if she had just jabbed a pen into his eyeball to let him know "that sh*t ain't on down here yo."

I got nothin against people hooking up for whatever but approaching a total stranger at work (wherever that may be other than in the adult industry) with those kinds of questions and proposal is deserving of a country style beat down with extra grits imo.
loco polaco 3 | 352  
30 Sep 2008 /  #43
Not if it's between two people who know each other and agree to talk about it. In this context (woman alone with a strange man who might become violent) it constitutes some form of abuse. If someone did that to my wife I'd be stamping his face into the tarmac

no it doesn't and you'd be the one going to jail for assault.

polaco, you'd most likely be singing a different tune if this happened to a woman you had any emotional attachment to, plutonic or fleeting or otherwise.

nope. i don't date weak women.

I got nothin against people hooking up for whatever but approaching a total stranger at work (wherever that may be other than in the adult industry) with those kinds of questions and proposal is deserving of a country style beat down with extra grits imo.

about 99% of the time a simple NO will suffice.

if he is American, believe me, Authorities will pick him up.

bs. american authorities wouldn't do sh!t about this in PL. nada.. mainly because nothing really happened.

sex drugs.. etc.. you're reaching.. that's one's choice what they get into etc, etc.

hey, and if my aunt, cousin or sister or whomever wants to get into ****, then there is nothing i can or even should do about it.. that is their life and that is their choice. a trully loving person would just support them in their quest and be there if they need someone.. just like anything else.
southern 75 | 7,096  
30 Sep 2008 /  #44
Its quite scary that a naive girl could agree to his proposal.

As we all know naive girls are the ones taking part in porn films.
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
30 Sep 2008 /  #45
nope. i don't date weak women.

well now you've admitted you think this woman was weak, so now we know you ARE running under the assumption this guy targets or looks to target "weak" women.

about 99% of the time a simple NO will suffice.

did you know 93% of all statistics are made up on the spot. Seriously gtfoh with that number, unless you have personal experience in this sort of thing....

The guy is a slimeball and on that you have no choice but to agree. And 100% of time your 99% says a simple "no" means that slimeballs just keep trying to prey on, as you've admitted, weak women.

Again I got no qualms about people searching that stuff out and applaud those who feel "liberated" because of doing so. That being said, doing what he does warrants an ass kicking pure and simple.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
30 Sep 2008 /  #46
Yeah, it's all very well saying that they should just say no but these scuzballs have such powers of persuasion, convincing creeps.

There are places where women can go of their own volition, without on-the-spot pressure. This is the information age after all.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
30 Sep 2008 /  #47
This is the information age after all.

Exactly... but the whole adult industry is ridiculous.

Why they call it adult anyways?...I mean...when we are adult we should be better than that! Its a ridiculous name.

About this thread being about the american man (probably). I think americans are far better than that. I know some and I think they are nice people.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
30 Sep 2008 /  #48
I met an American once....;)
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
30 Sep 2008 /  #50
Well, it was a him, not a 'this' ;)
loco polaco 3 | 352  
30 Sep 2008 /  #51
well now you've admitted you think this woman was weak, so now we know you ARE running under the assumption this guy targets or looks to target "weak" women.

no, bad assumption. i assume so because she couldn't handle it and cried and called her bf. every woman that i have ever dated would have taken care of that themselves without any need for my help.

That being said, doing what he does warrants an ass kicking pure and simple.

i don't see it that way. like i said, if the woman is in control of herself a little incident like that should be anything to boohoo about.

as to slimeball, i tend not to judge people like that.. he does what he does and i am not about to try to change his mind. whatever.. there are plenty of girls that would go for it and plenty that wouldn't. crying about it doesn't solve anything.

I know some and I think they are nice people.

some americans are and some aren't.. just like the rest of the world. americans aren't all that much different.

I met an American once....;)

so there is video of this encounter? lol
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
30 Sep 2008 /  #52
Well, it was a him, not a 'this'

I see you are english teacher :)
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
30 Sep 2008 /  #53
Yes, I do my best. Disillusionment is driving me towards the adult movie business tho. Nah, just kidding ;)
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
30 Sep 2008 /  #54
no it doesn't and you'd be the one going to jail for assault.

Yes I would. but as the man was putting my wife in fear of physcial assault, it would be a form of assault on his part too.

hey, and if my aunt, cousin or sister or whomever wants to get into porn, then there is nothing i can or even should do about it.. that is their life and that is their choice. a trully loving person would just support them in their quest and be there if they need someone.. just like anything else.

Really? That kind of devotion tugs at my heartstrings, that you would be willing to stand by a loved one on the struggle to fulfill their heart's desire - working in the sex industry. That's beautiful, man
loco polaco 3 | 352  
30 Sep 2008 /  #55
how is it a hysical assualt asking questions or offering a job?

hey, if that is what they want to do then that is what they want to do. you would try to stop them? good luck with that.. normally that kind of intervention only backfires and distance and hurt feelings develop. meddling in others' lives never works out. never.
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
30 Sep 2008 /  #56
as to slimeball, i tend not to judge people like that..

riiiiight, some american comes to poland to do what? and goes about it by pressuring girls at work and you "blah blah blah, don't judge cause blah blah."

It isn't judging when you call it for what it is. buddy i'm as liberal as the next guy but you're really not keeping this in context.

if the woman is in control of herself a little incident like that should be anything to boohoo about.

So the girl is weak cause she cried? well that must make every woman weak in your books. Get those lil hamsters runnin on the wheel to make the big wheel go faster and think about it:

1Weird foreigner invades Polish woman's work area with slimeball tactics and proposition. Keep in mind she may very well have different values than him on this...

2Said woman being emotional about it later with her boyfriend probably means she was more than a little offended or insulted or threatened.

3Some people (women) cry when they feel threatened, it's really not that hard to comprehend.

This may come as a surprise to you as it seems you have precious little experience with actually talking to or listening to women but it's quite easy for us guys to intimidate them. They can get spooked by the wrong guy and again, this may be a surprise to you as you probably don't have much experience with women, but a lot of them are more given to tears than guys are. It doesn't make a person weak for crying, some people just cry easier than others.

My call on it is this, doing that kind o thing is f'n with the bull, it is playin with fire, it is a gamble so a guy like that should really get the horns, get burnt or lose it all so he can ask himself if what he's doin is really what he's meant to be doin on this planet. Maybe yes, maybe not but a good asskicking would do wonders to see how many of these slimeballs really want to stay out there on the pitch.
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
1 Oct 2008 /  #57
bs. american authorities wouldn't do sh!t about this in PL. nada.. mainly because nothing really happened.

sex drugs.. etc.. you're reaching.. that's one's choice what they get into etc, etc.

nytimes.

imagine that, the FBI making a office in Poland, hmmmmmm

wow,, on the same day that I respond to you.. its local news..
isnt that something ... almost like I knew .. heh heh.. well, I dont
under-estimate my country like you do.

[quote=Foreigner4]riiiiight, some american comes to poland to do what? and goes about it by pressuring girls at work and you "blah blah blah, don't judge cause blah

look at his SN.. says alot for the guy.. he wrote loco not local..
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
1 Oct 2008 /  #58
Patrycja19

This topic is interesting to me in a way....though i posted just once or twice...

Its uncommon... but it seems not so uncommon.

As I mentioned, I myself know one person with such an experience. But this is because the adult companies look for east european girls. I have considered this as a myth (as its talked about in academic institutions....while chatting with friends)....but so many mouths...so many words...

But since I see this post...and an incident of a friend i can relate to...and all the things i heard...maybe they do look for. Adult movies among some youth is a very much common thing. So many people testify to this fact. Though frankly i have less idea on such activities.... but I think the big pay of prducers from USA or UK might just force some girls into it. OR there are certain women who would like it as easy money even, no doubt.

But then... its a dangerous thing to classify this on some people....or take this as a regular event.

I think these men (producers) target certain women they think will say yes. Otherwise they would go everywhere! But certain women they feel .... are more likely.... just my opinion!
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
1 Oct 2008 /  #59
^^probably they target girls who work in the service industry as they tend to be more outgoing and at the same time are easy access to when working. There is also the assumption, rightly or wrongly, that girls in the service industry don't make that much so them trying to target girls without as much wherewithall as others also leads me to the conclusion that they in fact are sleazeballs.

One mistake they would make here is using a north american value system when assessing people here based on things like makeup, hair and clothes. Some of the things no one thinks anything of here would get a girl labelled "tramp" the second she left the door in a mid west town.

fbi in poland? that's scary stuff, imagine having the bundespolizei setting up shop in your backyard. I don't support the idea of a foreign police force operating under their rules while abroad, not at all but certainly support co-operation and assistance. 2 cents into the well
MrBubbles 10 | 614  
1 Oct 2008 /  #60
how is it a hysical assualt asking questions or offering a job?

Read the post. If someone feels as if they are in danger of assault then it is assault. A man approaching a lone woman and asking intrusive questions about her sex life and trying to persuade her to make porn films would be considered very suspicious behaviour by any reasonable person and you know this damn well.

normally that kind of intervention only backfires and distance and hurt feelings develop. meddling in others' lives never works out. never.

Sorry, but what the Hell are you talking about?

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