as to slimeball, i tend not to judge people like that..
riiiiight, some american comes to poland to do what? and goes about it by pressuring girls at work and you "blah blah blah, don't judge cause blah blah."
It isn't judging when you call it for what it is. buddy i'm as liberal as the next guy but you're really not keeping this in context.
if the woman is in control of herself a little incident like that should be anything to boohoo about.
So the girl is weak cause she cried? well that must make every woman weak in your books. Get those lil hamsters runnin on the wheel to make the big wheel go faster and think about it:
1Weird foreigner invades Polish woman's work area with slimeball tactics and proposition. Keep in mind she may very well have different values than him on this...
2Said woman being emotional about it later with her boyfriend probably means she was more than a little offended or insulted or threatened.
3Some people (women) cry when they feel threatened, it's really not that hard to comprehend.
This may come as a surprise to you as it seems you have precious little experience with actually talking to or listening to women but it's quite easy for us guys to intimidate them. They can get spooked by the wrong guy and again, this may be a surprise to you as you probably don't have much experience with women, but a lot of them are more given to tears than guys are. It doesn't make a person weak for crying, some people just cry easier than others.
My call on it is this, doing that kind o thing is f'n with the bull, it is playin with fire, it is a gamble so a guy like that should really get the horns, get burnt or lose it all so he can ask himself if what he's doin is really what he's meant to be doin on this planet. Maybe yes, maybe not but a good asskicking would do wonders to see how many of these slimeballs really want to stay out there on the pitch.