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Why do Polish Women Think They Know Better?


MareGaea 29 | 2,751  
5 Oct 2009 /  #91
Does the phrase "I didn't do anything wrong!" Sound familiar to you?

M-G (tsk!)
ZIMMY 6 | 1,601  
5 Oct 2009 /  #92
Never let any woman choose restaurant,cafe,club because she will choose the worst for sure.

If a woman chooses a specific place then I presume she'll pay for that nights entertainment. After all, "women are independent".....right?

...otherwise, there is nothing wrong with a woman paying her "fair share" of entertainment be it movie,theatre, dinner or whatever.

Of course the double-standard woman will demand "equality" in those things she wants yet attempt to retain her female priviliges without giving up anything for the man. This is one area (of several) where women have no logic. If men still have to pay while women demand equality then women are really demanding "eek'wallet'ty" not equality.
MareGaea 29 | 2,751  
5 Oct 2009 /  #93
Never borrow a woman your credit card! No matter how much you love her, some things are sacred!

:)

M-G (made that mistake once, cost him dearly)
mets2redsox0 - | 40  
5 Oct 2009 /  #94
Why do Polish Women Think They Know Better?

Two Reason's:

1, they are Women

2, they are Polish-Women

No more need be said!. LOL!. :-D

Love them!, or Leave them!, if you leave them!, you'll miss them!!.
LAGirl 9 | 496  
6 Oct 2009 /  #95
Same for Polish men I say.
George8600 10 | 632  
9 Oct 2009 /  #96
Well unless we live in the ages of the Nomad, I believe women are as intellectually competent as men and there should be no reasons to treat them inferior.
beckski 12 | 1,617  
9 Oct 2009 /  #97
I believe women are as intellectually competent as men and there should be no reasons to treat them inferior.

Very well said. Bravo!
osiol 55 | 3,921  
9 Oct 2009 /  #98
Why do Polish Women Think They Know Better?

Just because they do. A Polish woman told me that.
Still susceptible to the proverbial woman's prerogative though.
Eurola 4 | 1,902  
9 Oct 2009 /  #99
Why do Polish Women Think They Know Better?

Just because they do.

Exactly. Don't even try to fight it. Just say yes. :-)
osiol 55 | 3,921  
9 Oct 2009 /  #100
A Polish man told me that all Polish men can do plastering and hang doors. I still have a knobbly wall with tramlines and an upside down door to prove his point. Maybe a Polish woman had told him he could do it.
dnz 17 | 710  
9 Oct 2009 /  #101
I really do find it disturbing the sheer lack of attention to detail when finishing a building over here, our place is only 10 months old or so and the walls look like they've been plastered by stevie wonder himself.

That said the builders here are fcuking quick, the house next door got insulated and rendered in less than a week, (still putting the insulation on the outside of the bricks seems utterly ridiculous)

Attention members and guests. Let's have the next post on topic, please.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
9 Oct 2009 /  #102
I still have a knobbly wall with tramlines and an upside down door to prove his point.

they're good builders only when they're building/fixing their own houses ;)
professor 1 | 5  
9 Oct 2009 /  #104
My girlfriend doesn't suffer from this disorder. She's quite ok..so far
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
10 Oct 2009 /  #105
It is not just Polish women, its all women, let them get on with it and think they know better. That is tht trick with women, always let them think their in control when all they are doing is holding a steering wheel connecting to nothing :)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
10 Oct 2009 /  #106
That is tht trick with women, always let them think their in control when all they are doing is holding a steering wheel connecting to nothing :)

oh, and does this trick work for you?
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
10 Oct 2009 /  #107
Women and men... both need to consult before heading towards making a decision.

No person knows so better that they become the sole decision maker.
bakergirl2 - | 2  
10 Oct 2009 /  #108
Griff
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szarlotka

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szarlotka
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This made me laugh because how true that is.

I'm just about realising the differences between Polish men and English men. I was quite enarmoured with the manners and consideration of Polish men, especially the Polish man I've just been involved with.. a lot different and very welcome change from the English men I have known.

On the downside, English women are not used to "jobs for men" and "jobs for women". I'm very good at handywork, decorating, carpentry, DIY, etc and my Polish friend couldn't come to terms with this. Every job in my house was now his job, and of course he did everything so much better than me, practically calling me stupid and not knowing what to do. Even cooking was his domain, everything Polish was beautiful and woe betide me if I didn't like it, but everything English was ****!! no taste. (not swamped in salt and polish herbs and spices more like!). I have found most Polish people to be arrogant, in the way that they think they are superior and don't mind telling you, whereas English people are a little less forthright, willing to listen to reason, and a little bit more humble.

Unfortunately, I've also come across the man who is definately under the thumb of the Polish woman.. any woman really.

This Polish guy happens to be a married man, alone in England. Not that I make a habit of affairs with married men, this was my first, (and probably the last!!) affair. He had left his wife and come to England, after 25 married years of oppression by his wife. He likes to drink but he's not allowed, he likes to play game on a computer, but he must work etc etc, I'm sure you know the story.

Now to his friends, everything was fine, but his friends wive's thought it was their place to scold him and tell him he was doing wrong. If his friends wive's were visiting, I saw a very different man, a little aloof, but on his own very loving and kind. So it seems a Polish woman can get her nose into other people's affairs.

Now I think us English women are a lot less strict and a little more lenient that our Polish counterparts. Whether this works for Polish men or not is another matter.

In my case, after promising me he was here for 18 months, my friend went home after 4, because his wife wouldn't let him alone. I think he wants to leave her, but I think also that he needs her permission to go, and obviously that isn't going to happen.

Now my friends from work are the same. They are a lot younger, just starting out in married life and relationships, and already the men won't do anything because their wive's say they can't. One young man was so obsessed with the idea that it was his duty to work for and support his girlfriend, when she wouldn't come over from POland to live here with him he wanted to die. He tried to kill himself. I asked him why and it was because he said that it was his duty to buy his g/friend anything she wanted, she must come here and live with him and he must work for her, or his life meant nothing. I managed to talk him out of killing himself, and told him I didn't like what his g/friend was doing (playing with his mind), but of course she won and I'm out of favour.

Although I understand about cultural differences, It also seems to me that men are totally emasculated in Poland. They are not allowed to be free thinking human beings, their autonomy is gone.

Like someone said in this thread, when Polish men are off the leash they go wild, having affairs and drinking to excess. I've just seen this first hand, and it seems to be true.

Polish men when let loose are like balls in a PinBall machine. They bounce off everything, pinging about, crashing all over the place, then totally exhausted and subdued, they slide back home until they are released again.

From the perspective of an English woman, this is how I see it.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
10 Oct 2009 /  #109
It also seems to me that men are totally emasculated in Poland. They are not allowed to be free thinking human beings, their autonomy is gone.

if my brother-in-law drinks ONE beer more than what my sister told him he's allowed to have (lol), she goes mental at him in front of friends, family, strangers... he sometimes gets angry and leaves the room and she runs out straight after him apologising, but most of the time he's like 'przepraszam myszko' and that's that. it is a funny thing to watch, that is not the sort of relationship and not the sort of control i want for myself. i do like to know what's happening and where my bloke is but i'm not gonna count his beers for gods sakes ha ha. i saw a couple in town today, he was walking behind her carrying her bright green handbag and she was on her mobile... why are so many Polish men doormats??
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
10 Oct 2009 /  #110
Is this just me?

no

Has anyone else experienced this?

yes

Is this normal everywhere?

no idea but if she keeps it up i'll be gone before she can say powiniesz
Just the other day I told her what I'm going to do with the car, and she cried out "no no no, that's too expensive, no no no you don't know what you're doing, etc, etc. Then she told her father about my plans, he agreed with my idea. Suddenly she thinks it's a great idea.

I don't find this confined to any particular group though, in my experience people just want to have things their way regardless of the consequences.
time means 5 | 1,309  
10 Oct 2009 /  #111
Why do Polish Women Think They Know Better

Surely the title should be all women.

My girlfriend doesn't suffer from this disorder. She's quite ok..so far

Give her time. Soon enough your friends will be no good, your clothes style, hair, drink too much etc.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
10 Oct 2009 /  #112
Give her time. Soon enough your friends will be no good, your clothes style, hair, drink too much etc.

ha ha tut tut, sounding a bit bitter there
Nika 2 | 507  
10 Oct 2009 /  #113
Like someone said in this thread, when Polish men are off the leash they go wild, having affairs and drinking to excess. I've just seen this first hand, and it seems to be true.

they should be thankful that we do let them off the leash from time to time.
Aren't we just sweet??????? ;)
time means 5 | 1,309  
10 Oct 2009 /  #114
ha ha tut tut, sounding a bit bitter there

Just passing on the benefit of my experience :-)))
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
10 Oct 2009 /  #115
they should be thankful that we do let them off the leash from time to time.
Aren't we just sweet??????? ;)

coś za coś ;) i think that the saying about bad girls always getting good guys is very true here. if men were more like men it would never come to this!
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
10 Oct 2009 /  #116
bad girls always getting good guys

But it wont last..
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
10 Oct 2009 /  #117
it will last untill the good guy's had enough and they hardly ever rebel
southern 74 | 7,074  
10 Oct 2009 /  #118
Today I had sex with two polish cousines when the one of them started licking the nipples of the other.She asked her why do you lick my nipples and the cousine answered because I love you.So I guess polish women know better.
Arien 3 | 719  
10 Oct 2009 /  #119
it will last untill the good guy's had enough and they hardly ever rebel

There are no good guys, so I'm afraid you've been fooled.

:)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
12 Oct 2009 /  #120
i wouldn't call them good guys per se, they're just doormats lol. nope no good guys, i heard stories about them but they don't exist.

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