Understanding Polish Man

the benefits are good:)

but only short term ;)

Maybe it was one argument too many and he'd had enough, cant blame him really I prefer to have friends I have a laugh with and enjoy their company not ones that pick fights! Each to their own though :)

Well, I think he is resentful with me, I guess as he hasn't said much....... fair enough though, I'll give him sometime...

I am just impressed on how mad he could get, if previously he was so patience with me, maybe it was the last drop....

Yahve held his anger for 3 days. Polish men can do better than that :)

Hahahaahah Really??? how better???? .... Just to have an idea :P

Lilianna:

believe me, we are VERY GOOD at this.

I didn't read the whole topic, but here are my thoughts (as a polish man):
-are you sure it's only friendship? remember that men have different way of thinking: "hmmm... we are friends... but we talk a lot... obviously she likes me... hmm... probably she is interested in me... hmmm... I wonder how she looks naked... hmmm". NO MATTER WHAT BE CAREFUL WITH "FRIENDSHIPS"

-polish stereotype is that man should chase women and be the side which takes actions - if something is wrong we take it VERY personally (especially young ones)

-we can get really offended by comments about Poland, polish way of thinking, us personally

-person who started argument should be the one who appologizes(? difficult word)

-one interesting thing: from my experience if you guys started DELETING YOURSELVES FROM EVERYWHER.... ohhh how cute... are you REALLY sure it's a friendship? :D I did it few times and believe me or not - it wasn't friendship at all (and it supposed to be!).

general idea for polish guys: start talking with him again and don't bother if he plays offended queen :) just keep talking ;)

Hiii Siegfried thanks for the Feedback!!! :)


Well, we used to flirt but just as a game, but yeah I was pretty sure we were just friends.....


Well, I already did, I sent to him a long open sincere message. He has just responded minutes ago with "I read it, I need to think" ....

Yup, that was it! lol


Mmmmm I am the one who started the deleting thing, I've done it couple of times before, and always fixed the situation, but this time got different....


Yeah I kind of feel he's very resentful, dunno how much time he needs though....

THANKS AGAIN!!

Hii Everybody!!

Just to let you know that my friend and I are talking back again. It's still a bit strange, but we are working out.....

Thanks for all the help! :D

From this experience, I think Polish guys just need a little bit of time to chill out. But they still got good hearts.... :D

hello Lilianna77 My advice to you is there are plenty more men out there. Forget this one he is not worth the effort!!

Sounds like a typical case of High Functioning Autism HFA/Aspergers Syndrome to me.

Check this out on google and see if you find any similarities