Things not to do with a Polish girl?

no, in no sense is there any need for a 15 year old boy to worry about girls unless she is pregant. she ain't so he shouldn't. at this stage in a young dude's life, it's soooo basic, that all he has to do is take a swing and he'll hit that big round,...nice, juicy, uhhhh, umm, what i mean is, he ought to do ok.

and what he's saying about the not ready business is ummm, how shall i say, a warm waft of smoke blowing up your arse (or who ever's reading). At 15, and if the goal were really in his sights, he'd be sayin and doin ANYTHING to get where his lil curtis was tellin him to be.

testify!

Are you saying if I wanted sex with her that I'd tell her anything and do anything for her just to get it?

3 lefts make a right

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no, of course not,..... and i poop rainbows.
no seriously:


i suppose you're trying to get past that "if" and a good job to you, looking up inside sources- thinking outside the box (pun intended) to get in the box. Bravo.

*edited for effect*

That's how it works most of the time, yeah. Why?

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Well, I'm trying to make an effort, even if she doesn't know about it. I doubt girls want lazy sleep all day never exercise type of guys anyways, so.

I'm not a spiceboy, But I try to make an effort.

I don't really want sex with her yet, yeah she's really hot. But I want another 3-4 years atleast. Want to be able to trust her and know she's the one before we get to penetration.

well, you probably did offend her a slight bit .. if a girl knows that a guy likes her and
all of the sudden hes handing out his phone number to one of her friends.. well I know
thats bad sign.. because its like your just trying to find someone and kind of shows
desperation.. you just want someone to have your number right :)

for a 15 year old , you are very mature, so this kinda surprises me because you are
such a well put together young man .. and I hardly know you only by this post, but
reading it , you sound well above and beyond your years and have plans . which is
very good .. but,, the fact remains that you gave your number to her friend. so
probably a single pink rose ( means I like you) here in the states, so find out what
a pink rose means there.. and maybe some special candy or something like that
and just tell that you meant nothing by it and only like her..

as for the rest, you both have long way to go, and time to enjoy each other,, school
is so important and I believe you will go far :)) I dont have a son, but I can say
if I did, I would really love one just like you.. your one smart young man.. I am sure
your mother is extremely proud. :)

oh hohoohoohahaha oh dear, stop it, i'm dying over here.

In my experience, girls like whatever you give em. after reading that last passage of yours, you're better off figuring yourself out than anything even remotely connected with any girl.

C'mon don't you find the fact that you got actually got a plan for her just a lil strange given your relationship with her. She might, just might be a lil wierded out if she knew you had a "penetration" plan for her-chicks don't dig obsessive dudes. That's a touch obsessive. play the field kid, it'll make the game easier.

of all the words you could have used....

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* closing my eyes.. I cant read ... wait till marriage please.. lol.

Thank you. I'm not sure that she knows about me giving my number to her friend, but she younger than me, by 2-3 years. I don't go around flirting with every girl in a fight to get some action.

Wrong choice of words, I should have said that I want to wait afew more years till the intimacy gets strong. I don't have any plans on wanting to get in bed with her, but I know I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin.

dont listen to this,, I have two girls, one 15 years of age, who was just recently hurt
by the games boys play,, the other only 11 years of age and trust me their little hearts
get broke so easily.. keep your plans and thoughts.. you will figure out the rest as
you go..

I'm not in for breaking hearts, but a story always has two sides.

I play games (Video games, with my friends from school online), but not when it comes to someones feelings/beliefs/emotions.

well if her friend is really her friend,, chances are she knows.. if her friend isnt her
real friend, then chances are she dont.

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I dont think you do that at all. your a very smart young man.. and this statements
one which you can be proud of because at your age alot of young men want to try
New things and that can get them into some big trouble.. *being a daddy *..

there is consequences .. thats why I say you should be Proud and I am proud of you
and I dont know you, I think your a very sweet and good young man.. I wish there
was more of you living here in the states.. :)) all of us moms would be glad.

Then she knows... It was probably the only thing they talked about all night.

I did, Im relating my personal experiences with my daughters to him to show him
that this happens.. they come to me and tell me how they feel and whats going on
and cry.. and I am there for them always.. I cant take away the hurt, I wish I could
I let them decide whos good and whos bad and listen as a Mother should..


be careful, now there is two involved and friends to boot.. so just try to make
things right,, tell her what your intentions.. and be honest. :)

Eh, I don't usaully tell my parents/family much. As I never hear the last of the things I mention.

It's cool for your daughters to have someone to go to as their growing up.

I'm not even interested the slightest with her friend though. She never even called me either.

Im Sorry.. I think its important to talk, especially these things because these are
very important to them and to me.. I wish for you the same,, you can Pm me
anytime you need to talk.. :))

Thanks for the offer :)

I know it's important to talk, but most of the time I find myself just keeping it to myself. I like to have my own space, so I spend afew hours a day in my room away from anyone and just enjoy being alone, no influence from anyone else. It's kind of strange for someone to enjoy being alone, I don't hate people, but I like have that hour or two a day to myself.

we all like that time to ourselfs :)))

its not strange, its normal, and its good, because you have time to reflect
and re-think.. I used to do that , and I think I turned out pretty good :)))

You're my twin, hei brother, nice to "meet" you ;) I'm a loner, i spend most of my time alone, and i never tell my feelings to anybody...Actually i don't talk much.

Well I see everyone high tailed it out of this thread :))

it is touchy subject one which if someone needs to air out their mind
someone should always be there.

Hey Curtis, stick with it, you might only be 15 but it's a cool age..she is probably bemused and wondering why you dote on her so..I doubt it's in a negative way so don't take it personally...at 15 she will have hormones running around and be coming to grips with her sexuality...it is a confusing age for a girl and a guy also!

I can totally equate to "Why ya like a polish person?!?.." if my girlfriend Edyta says it once a week sometimes she says it every day in a cheeky way....she is everything nice and is trying to work out why I love her so much....it is because she is Polish and they are a passionate race and have fantastic values.....re the language tell me about it, I struggle with it but she is teaching me....slowly :) Stick with it, sounds like normal boy girl stuff to me!

I talk abit, but nothing thats of any importance. I don't really have one group of friends that I've ever got close to to have them as my best friends. I just know a wide variety of people at a distance. I talk to Emilia about stuff more than most of my friends.

I'll see her tomorrow and hopefully it'll be cool and stuff. Hopefully get to talk to her about a few things, see what's happening for her.

:D

Seen her today and it was alright. She was smiling and stuff right off the bat so it doesn't look like she's holding anything from friday. Didnt have much chance to talk to her though as I had music coursework to do so I can get my study leave at the end of the year.

Thanks for all the advice guys/gals.

Ask her out Curtis - if the weather is nice this weekend, go for a walk in some park....

whilst talking about it on a forum might help you some, its not really helping the wouldbe blossoming romance is it now.....think positive.....

Eh, Like Joe said on page 1, she's blowing hot and cold.

I was out with her brother and his mates last night, he started talking about her period and stuff and I'm like... Seriously.. Come on..

So yeah, time of the month maybe. I'm going to ask her for her number tomorrow, hopefully try and get out with her sometime as we have study leave at the end of the year.

I strongly recommend the quick slavic approach.

Do I want to know what that is southern?

Southern maybe hes not ready to hear some of your tactics mate, could poison his mind.

Observe her polish friends,how they treat girls and do the same.