Things not to do with a Polish girl?

Aww :/
Why not speak to her friend in private about it and see what she thinks?

I'm always talking to "the friend" on MSN as she's english. She thinks I'm insane to like her so much.

All they say is "tell her you like her.." and so on, but when I'm with her it's like I can't just come out and say "I like you.." it just seems like I'm being to direct. She's knows I like her though.

Learn how to say it in Polish and you wont feel as awkward?
I'm sure if you said that to her, she wouldnt feel you were being too direct, I think she would think it was really sweet of you (:

I say you just go for it and see what happens.
Because if this is getting you down, you can't just hang on forever waiting to see if anything will happen.

So don't tell her you like her.
Instead, ask her if she knows you like her. That's not as direct ;)

Ahrm! Don't say so! Show it! Make her tell you that! Keep playing! OMG, I'm not your teacher. Ask bigger bro or Dad

or there's an easier option! :p

I feel like I could ask her if she knows...

If I was going to say it in polski, then I'd probly be more concerned with sounding like a pillock because I can't pronounce it than feeling awkward.

Don't show her that you care so much. It's not a good idea about learning polish sentence for her. Just make her laugh, spend some time with.

I don't want to impress her by the fact that I can speak afew polish words, I just want her to know that I care for her.

And that's what I'm trying to say:

DON'T SHOW HER YOU CARE SO MUCH

For example you could ask her ''Do you like Doda?''
She may answer:No.I think she is a *****.
Or yes.I like her.
And then start a conversation about Doda,her look,her music,etc.

Other things to ask.
Why are polish girls soo beautiful?
Or make statements like ''polskie dziewczyny bardzo ladne.''

You can tease her about her hair,shoes,ring etc.

haha that's a funny sh*it

you can also say she makes you hot :P i mean DODA, not 15 years old girl lol

I know how to talk to her mate :).

I don't know why I should show that I don't care for her when I do though, playing games isn't my kind of thing.

Or you can talk her about Kaczynski.For example ''Kaczynski seems to me rather sexy.''
She will be suprised and say:NOOOO


It is direct vs indirect.Some men like direct,some prefer indirect.
For direct you need right body language,good tonality,eye contact and a lot of things.It is difficult to achieve.So you go indirect.

If you show you are not so attracted,it means that you have independance,you do not fall for her so quickly,you are not easy to get,and this creates attraction in women's mind.For example when will you be more attracted to agirl?If she sleeps with you from first date or if you chase her for some time?(I do not give here advise to girls).

because she would be fed up after two days. Small steps. Make her laugh. Make her miss you. Make her think about you. Finally: Make her addicted.

Damn i should write a book.

Ha southern, why would she say 'no'? Kaczynski is damn hot! Always makes me horny haha

Then I answer something like.''I thought Leper is the real deal over there.Would you like to become a party member?''

and i would say: not party member but all i dream about is go for a PARTY with you ....

haha, im good, huh?

now gotta go, wish u good look, Curtis. Remember my tips!

You say for example ''if I were not gay,I would have fallen in love with you''.This is classic line.
Or you use push-pull.For example,''your necklace looks very nice'' but I saw it on another girl just a minute ago.

You guys are hilarious...

It's a good idea though, Your right in saying that making a girl want you is better than being all kissy kissy, and doing everything at the first hurdle.

Just don't want to offend her.

Then be yourself. Look back on your experience with other girls and take it from there.

And stop talking to her friend so much... she is obviously passing on your thoughts.

just tell her kocham cie...........it will be all good

I'm fine with being myself. The friend I talk to she doesn't talk to that much. She speaks more with the polish girls than the english ones, but she is one of the few close english friends she has.

I don't really want to tell her I love her Dean, Thats just as bad as asking someone to marry you on a first date...

you're 15?

here's some advice, don't worry too much about girls at this stage, there are litterly billions out there and there'll be more to come than this one. Talk with her, if it works then it'll work for a while, it it doesn't then it won't but maybe later it will.

be yourself in success and failure. i'd say good luck, but you don't need it. it's just a matter of time before you figure it all out.

oh yeah one more thing,Question: "Things not to do with a Polish girl?" Answer: get her pregnant.

You know, the average teenage mind is so horny and all..

Don't think I'm ready for sex with any girl yet. But no glove, no love.

he should worry in a sense that this experiance might shape how he is going to handle women in the future.


you seem to be a pretty balanced young man and I really don't think you need advice.
You coul probably teach Southern few things.

Hehe, it's all what how you get raised from a young age.

there you go:)


I think that you are fine here. It just some of your friends who don't unerstand where you at, so explain it to them and thank them for their unsolicited advices and comments.

I humbly disagree.

You learn who your true friends are quickly. Most of my true friends don't say anything about her. There's my mates that make a joke now and then, have a laugh with them and theres no offense meant by what they say. But then there's people who try and make fun out of it, their the retards, and more likely than not there chavs.

I though you would:)


wise man