My Stupid Friend

Wroclaw 44 | 5,379

2 Nov 2007 / #31

its not for us to judge...

If we are to judge his "stupid friend" then I think it is fair to bring him [nauczyciel] into the equation.

krysia 23 | 3,058

3 Nov 2007 / #32

may be nauczyciel does have an interest in this woman or maybe he is just a really good friend

Only nauczyciel knows ;)

Patrycja19 62 | 2,688

3 Nov 2007 / #33

i didn't see her as GF material, so i was not jealous at all.

I thought you already had a GF ??

he sent me a msg from his GG not stating who he was, and told me to stay away from her.

this isnt unusual for a man who fears losing his GF.. I think most guys who find out
this is going on with another male would probably do the same. even if nothing is
theres always going to be jealousy.. its part of your nature.. you would prob
do the same if you were feeling neglected/fear of another man taking over no?

plk123 8 | 4,142

4 Nov 2007 / #34

this is how it starts.i wouldn't like my wife to have a male friend whom she would be walking or sharing problems with. i am her husband.

but that means the you'd have to be willing to listen and many husbands aren't. it's all this "fluffy, feely stuff," and women have big lungs. lol

Patrycja19 62 | 2,688

4 Nov 2007 / #35

chicken!! bak bak.. lol

plk123 8 | 4,142

4 Nov 2007 / #36

I think most guys who find out
this is going on with another male would probably do the same. even if nothing is
theres always going to be jealousy.. its part of your nature.. you would prob
do the same if you were feeling neglected/fear of another man taking over no?

jelousy is a waste of energy. you can't control others. "party on b....!" is what i'd say. this third person is never really the problem.

chicken!! bak bak.. lol

lol.. believe you me.. i am a lot different then they way you all are probably reading me. :D

Patrycja19 62 | 2,688

4 Nov 2007 / #37

lol.. believe you me.. i am a lot different then they way you all are probably reading me. :D

oh yeah. well explain lol

jelousy is a waste of energy. you can't control others. "party on b....!" is what i'd say.

so your saying you never in your whole life experienced jealousy?

I think your full of poop! lol everyone feels it, and even though we cant
do anything about it, its there, it hurts , but mostly makes people out of their minds
and of course facts should be layed down before jumping the gun and reacting
but some dont. like that guy nauzcy is talking bout ..

krysia 23 | 3,058

4 Nov 2007 / #38

and women have big lungs

No! Really? :)

Patrycja19 62 | 2,688

4 Nov 2007 / #39

this third person is never really the problem.

sometimes they can be.. what if the relationship is blooming? for one or the other
and they start feeling something but dont admit it yet? then what? it can happen.

plk123 8 | 4,142

4 Nov 2007 / #40

so your saying you never in your whole life experienced jealousy?

i didn't say that.. i said it's a waste of time.. and i tend not to get jelous although i have a time or two... but like i also said, it's a big drain and if they're gonna go you just have to let them go.

but all that also may be prevented by being a "good" partner.. however, the definition of that needs to be about the same for both parties for the realtionship to work.

sometimes they can be.. what if the relationship is blooming? for one or the other
and they start feeling something but dont admit it yet? then what? it can happen.

the problem is one's partner though not their friend. if the other relationship is blooming then the first one is dead. move on..

oh yeah. well explain lol

i am way more suddle on these forums about my niceness. ;) :D