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Poland reverse of fortune in dating


szarlotka 8 | 2,209  
17 Aug 2009 /  #31
Ha. This theory that began this thread may explain why I have never been molested or generally jumped upon in Poland. I'm just too handsome, suave, sophisticated and in possession of all body parts.
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
17 Aug 2009 /  #32
don't agree with the first statement. Being loser gives you more chance than appearing as a loser. I think their intuition allows them to separate the men (read losers) from the boys (read fake losers).

LOL this is too hardcore even for me.

So me and southern seem to have a point here after all. I wish the Polish girls in the blog could come out of hiding.

You're just some idiot that girls dont like so you have to make up all these little theories about why they wont date you - was it same back in Pakistan?

Wrong part of the world I'm European, and as already said make the UK my current home

I bet you didnt, after all he was getting laid and you weren't.

I was doing OK myself. But merit to the guy he was doing really well.
Alx123 - | 180  
17 Aug 2009 /  #33
Maybe your retarded English puts them off.

You already know the guy is not a native speaker of English. I wonder if you can speak a foreign language as well? I didn't think so.
plk123 8 | 4,149  
17 Aug 2009 /  #34
I did and I edited appropriately.

rofl.. that's the ticket! :D :D

You were being very kind Mr P, I just thought he was a bit of a thick tw*t.

yes, i am missing my usual snap today... give me a few a bit more time on here and i'll be back on par. :D :D :D
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
17 Aug 2009 /  #35
separate the men (read losers) from the boys (read fake losers).

Men are losers and boys are fake losers?
Hhhhmmm, so are the boys in training?.

you are after all a bit of a thick tw*t.

Seriously, you are English right? you are not getting turned on here, are you?.

Southerner, what response should one ugly guy, pretending to be a loser, expect from a Polish woman because if it is hostility, I think ShelleyS might be coming on to LukeXXX, if not then she might really think of him poorly.

I'm just too handsome, suave, sophisticated and in possession of all body parts.

This is it, luckily for you.
I am burdened with the responsibility of being ugly in Poland.
I have taken all measures, reinforced the doors and windows.
Try to talk intelllijently and not to slur my words but it just doesn't work.

I wish the Polish girls in the blog could come out of hiding.

Do you find a lot of Polish women hide from you?.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
17 Aug 2009 /  #36
and as already said make the UK my current home

As Ive said, home is where friends and family are, you are merely an unwanted guest.

You already know the guy is not a native speaker of English.

But he keeps telling me that England is his home!

I wonder if you can speak a foreign language as well? I didn't think so.

You're jumping the gun a little bit pusti malaka ;0)

Seriously, you are English right? you are not getting turned on here, are you?.

Computer saaaaaaaaaays NO! :0)
Alx123 - | 180  
17 Aug 2009 /  #37
1) An Sicilian guy deaf and numb.
He could not speak but only make sounds, and of course he would fake dancing cause he could not hear much of the music. But this guy with the local girls was a success.

2) Some English guy without a leg, knee down.
Saw him a few times walking around. At first I thought he only had a limp, then I realized it was more serious that that.

Yes, I've seen such strange things. The funny thing is that guys like that can end up with a much more attractive girl in Poland than their able-bodied handsome counterparts in other European countries. I do feel happy for those particular guys and I think it's great that Polish girls have given them a chance to experience the pleasures of life that they would otherwise miss out on.
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
17 Aug 2009 /  #38
As Ive said, home is where friends and family are, you are merely an unwanted guest.

I never visited your home I think. Unless, wait ... was it you that really pissed English girls with the miniskirt I ban*** a few months back?

Damn I did not want this to get personal, but there you do.

Do you find a lot of Polish women hide from you?.

No, from this as well as other 'difficult' topics
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
17 Aug 2009 /  #39
I never visited your home I think. Unless, wait ... was it you that really pissed English girls with the miniskirt I ban*** a few months back?

You're really not getting me are you...home is where family and friends are...therefore England is not your home.

I dont take anything some retard has to say personally ;0)

By the Im way out of your league and I doubt you be able to afford the drinks in the bars I frequent, so there isnt a chance in hell our paths would ever cross, unless you were cleaning the doorway of tescos the other day when I walked past!
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
18 Aug 2009 /  #40
You're really not getting me are you...home is where family and friends are...therefore England is not your home.

Is this a competition?

I thought you had some point to prove here that English girl are more cleaver. Not the reverse. And you are failing me lady :))

Btw, nothing to say about topic? Haven't you noticed anything in clubs etc. Would be good to hear about that apart from the insults to me.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
18 Aug 2009 /  #41
Is this a competition?

No, I believe in care in the community so I'll give a mile start.

I thought you had some point to prove here that English girl are more cleaver. Not the reverse. And you are failing me lady :))

And where ever you are from, you are making the men of your country look idiotic.
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
18 Aug 2009 /  #42
You're really not getting me are you...

i think I understand where all the confusion is coming from.

LukeXX here is trying to be more of a loser and therefore be more attractive to Polish women.
You are not a Polish woman and therefore you are not finding him attractive.
But the more unattractive you find him, the better job he is at becoming more attractive to Polish women.
It is very very simple ShelleyS, do what southerner suggests just dumben down.

By the Im way out of your league and I doubt you be able to afford the drinks in the bars I frequent, so there isnt a chance in hell our paths would ever cross, unless you were cleaning the doorway of tescos the other day when I walked past!

So comments like this are showing what a wonderful loser LukeXXX is and all the Polish girls will be waiting for him at the airport, when he arrives.
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
18 Aug 2009 /  #43
No, I believe in care in the community so I'll give a mile start.

So let's step out of the ring.

I still think that for guys there is reverse fortune in dating in Poland.

Haven't you anything to say about this?

So comments like this are showing what a wonderful loser LukeXXX is and all the Polish girls will be waiting for him at the airport, when he arrives.

Well I wish I had a magic wand to turn thick in the disco. But that is not the case. Plus, I don't particularly want to only date Polish girls.
Alx123 - | 180  
18 Aug 2009 /  #44
I understand why guys dating polish girls may find this thread offensive but if so many different men agree on sth,there has to be sth really going on,we are not all blind.

Yes, that's very true. At times, I have trained myself not to notice the hot Polish girl-loser guy phenomenon for the sake of staying positive. At other times I may have tried to convince myself that perhaps there was more to it than meets the eye or that I'm being over judgemental. But now with so many guys agreeing on this, either there is some sort of conspiracy or there must be some truth to this.

You're jumping the gun a little bit pusti malaka ;0)

Well done, you can actually something in a foreign language.....that makes two foreign languages including Essex girl dialect ;)
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
18 Aug 2009 /  #45
Btw, nothing to say about topic? Haven't you noticed anything in clubs etc. Would be good to hear about that apart from the insults to me.

she is on topic, she is English (not Polish) and thinks your a loser (good work there) and finds you very unappealing ( further strengthening your hypothesis).

Polish women still hiding from you, I see, you may have to step it up a bit and become a real ass.
I would attempt that before hacking off any limbs anyway.
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
18 Aug 2009 /  #46
Well done, you can actually something in a foreign language.....that makes two foreign languages including Essex girl dialect ;)

Is Shelley one of them Essex girls?

Ha ha. Well then that explains it all. No contest here with (some disco type) Polish girls when it comes to undetected brain activity.

The Essex ladies would always win hands down.

Polish women still hiding from you, I see, you may have to step it up a bit and become a real ass. I would attempt that before hacking off any limbs anyway.

Man, let me confess I liked your comments at first. But this overstretched sarchasm .. ops... wait ... makes me .. wait ... keep yawning ... ops wait ... now.
solarplexus - | 7  
18 Aug 2009 /  #47
Other typical successful guys are (of course) ugly guys, v.old, short, Indian, brain dead looking etc. A total reverse of fortune compared with the rest of Europe.

What's wrong with Indians, pray tell?
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
18 Aug 2009 /  #48
Nothing wrong, nothing personal.

But apparently not on top of the charts with European girls preferences in men. As simple as that. I wanted to make a point but it was surely unfortunate I put Indian guys in bad company.
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
18 Aug 2009 /  #49
The Essex ladies would always win hands down.

Essex is a lovely landscapey place full of beauty and educated people, I bet you have never even been there..;)

Q. Did you hear about the Essex girl who got her putty mixed up with her vaseline?

A. All her windows fell out

But to keep on thread I do remember some years ago I was in Poland for some months, and saw skinny geeky English guys with amazing looking women, they would have been left with the mooses back in the UK, believe me.

The boys were delighted of course...
southern 75 | 7,096  
18 Aug 2009 /  #50
Maybe the girl perceives that if a guy is a loser,this means that he is so sensitive that could not handle the burdens and touchness of society so he deserves love.But they go also for macho types.

Maybe they simply cannot find sth better in Poland than these types of guys.I mean that in Poland the competition is ridiculous.
scrappleton - | 830  
18 Aug 2009 /  #51
Maybe the girl perceives that if a guy is a loser,this means that he is so sensitive that could not handle the burdens and touchness of society so he deserves love.

Love by charitiy case? I've seen it but it's rare and never results in marriage. However a domineering woman may actually like it.

I mean that in Poland the competition is ridiculous.

What? Ridiculously bad? How so?
southern 75 | 7,096  
18 Aug 2009 /  #52
What? Ridiculously bad? How so?

I mean there is no competition because the other guys are invisible.It is not like the West.
aphrodisiac 11 | 2,443  
18 Aug 2009 /  #53
(read fake losers).

how can one fake being a loser?
scrappleton - | 830  
18 Aug 2009 /  #54
I mean there is no competition because the other guys are invisible.

Well, in your opinion, what is the average guy who scores a good looking Pole like? In dress , manner? You mean to say some nerdy, bookish type is getting a trophy girl over there with regularity?
southern 75 | 7,096  
18 Aug 2009 /  #55
what is the average guy

There is no average guy.There is variation.

some nerdy, bookish type is getting a trophy girl

Some of them yes.But foreigners do not appear as nerdy,bookish types.They represent the low quality foreigner who tries to flash and impress the girls.While his attempts fail miserable in his home country,he finds heaven in Poland maybe because the girls are not aware of the tricks and common manners guys use in the west.

There is also lack of the real thing in Poland.I mean there are no cool western guys for polish girls to set an example because the quality guys are usually taken and have gfs in their home countries.

I stayed in Poland very limited time,so my observations come from a narrowed perspective.
What you feel in Poland is that by the time you cross the borders and get into Poland you become 10Xtimes more popular,successful,powerful,you really change status.

Of course it is still nothing to what happens when you cross the ukrainian border.

For example in Berlin you have to handle the competition from german guys,turkish guys etc and these guys can become aggressive.The society as a whole is far more aggressive and you have to prove yourself.You also see many german girls accompanied by men who probably are not their boyfriends so they are used to men kissing their feet.In Poland it is more seldom to see girls accompanied by men who are not their boyfriends and girls usually go out in girls companies while men gather to drink.
scrappleton - | 830  
18 Aug 2009 /  #56
he finds heaven in Poland maybe because the girls are not aware of the tricks and common manners guys use in the west.

This would explain influx of the British.

Poland you become 100Xtimes more popular,successful,powerful,you really change status.
Of course it is still nothing to what happens when you cross the ukrainian border

Which one makes the better wife on average? Better long term disposition? Won't b/tch as much?
southern 75 | 7,096  
18 Aug 2009 /  #57
Which one makes the better wife on average?

The ukrainian girl will leave you by the time she gets the visa and the right to stay.These girls find so many chances and opportunities in the countries they are brought in that they have no reason to stay with the person who actually brought them.

Polish girls also cheat but not for the same reasons.I mean they do not have a concrete calculated plan like ukrainian girls but they go according to situation,feelings etc.

Better long term disposition? Won't b/tch as much?

For wife I would choose polish girl because any long term attempt to handle the constant ukrainian girls unpredictable moody changes and their manipulations to gain the upper hand will lead to chronic depression where only alcohol can help.(no wonder why slavic men are such heavy drinkers).
scrappleton - | 830  
18 Aug 2009 /  #58
For wife I would choose polish girl because any long term attempt to handle the constant ukrainian girls unpredictable moody changes and their manipulations to gain the upper hand will lead to chronic depression where only alcohol can help.(no wonder why slavic men are such heavy drinkers).

Damn.. yes you may have well found a strong correlation. However, a lot of Ukes / Russians believe alcohol is medicinal too. (I've heard anyway.) Only Salvador Dali could tame a slavic and he was crazy as hell himself.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
18 Aug 2009 /  #59
I still think that for guys there is reverse fortune in dating in Poland.

No, you dont actually know anything, all you see is what your pathetic little brain signals are computing.

They represent the low quality foreigner who tries to flash and impress the girls.While his attempts fail miserable in his home country,he finds heaven in Poland maybe because the girls are not aware of the tricks and common manners guys use in the west.

Good description of yourself there Southern.

Well done, you can actually something in a foreign language.....that makes two foreign languages including Essex girl dialect ;)

Wrong again.

Is Shelley one of them Essex girls?

We both know Im not.

scrappleton

Bascially a few (not all ex-pats in Poland are total losers) foreigners have gone to Poland in the hope of scoring an attractive girl, but by the looks of it, they cant even manage that, even though the odds are quite high considering the amout of pretty Polish girls, its like a midget going into a sweet shop and finding all the sweets on the top shelf! They're there, but they are just that tiny bit out of reach! I understand why they come here with their pethetic views, it must be quite frustrating for them ;0)

As for the whole dumbing down thing, I can just imagine a Polish girl saying to her friend in front of you, in Polish "do you think that this guy is a retard?" These quizzical looks are not looks of stupidity, they are the kind of looks one gives whe some foreign idiot tries to chat you up and you just want them to go away.
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
18 Aug 2009 /  #60
Man, let me confess I liked your comments at first. But this overstretched

You are not hitting the "ass mark" yet, so by your own theory the Polish girls are still hiding.

You guys agree with each other, it reinforces your twisted logic.
There are about 1.5 billion people with internet access world wide, so what are the chances of meeting someone with the same idea as yourself?.
Must be one in a million?.

I stayed in Poland very limited time,so my observations come from a narrowed perspective.

Wow! you are either very observant or kinda creative.
How many brothels did you go to and how many prostitutes did you meet?, this might explain everything, no?.

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