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Meaning of Friendship (my friends is going back to Poland)


OP polishgirltx  
14 Mar 2008 /  #31
thank you guys.... it means a lot ... i don't really know where i am right now.... i'm confused... we try to spend as much time together as we can... of course, we will still stay in touch after she leaves...but the distance builds a wall... it's not gonna be the same and i have to get used to it... it's hard....

i've had (still have) very close friends... in PL and here.... but my friendship with her survived a lot... lots of ups and downs... she is like a sister i have never had...

ps - i've never believed in friendship between a guy and a girl.... till it happened to me... you never know what life brings you...
shopgirl 6 | 928  
14 Mar 2008 /  #32
It might sound lame, but it's true.....that sometimes when a door closes, a window opens.
You will have other friends, maybe even of the caliber of this friendship, just be patient.
We have a way of drawing the people that we need into our lives. :)
Arien  
14 Mar 2008 /  #33
won't feel the same both my friend (girl) and my husband

Right, I'm not sure if I understand correctly because you've said him instead of her, and if there is one thing I thought I knew about girls is that most girls need atleast one real good girlfriend..

So that's why I got a little curious, just thought for a minute that you'd be a very unique person then..

Nevermind.
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
14 Mar 2008 /  #34
It might sound lame, but it's true.....that sometimes when a door closes, a window opens.
You will have other friends, maybe even of the caliber of this friendship, just be patient.
We have a way of drawing the people that we need into our lives. :)

its not lame at all, its a good point, if you happen to lose your 'best friend' then there is a possibility that you will find another one in the future, so don't give up hope :)

Right, I'm not sure if I understand correctly because you've said him instead of her, and if there is one thing I thought I knew about girls is that most girls need atleast one real good girlfriend..

So that's why I got a little curious, just thought for a minute that you'd be a very unique person then..

Nevermind.

lol, same thing here mate i got confused with the 'him' 'her' thing going on there
OP polishgirltx  
27 Mar 2008 /  #35
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings... lol ;P
Mali - | 300  
27 Mar 2008 /  #37
Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings... lol ;P

That brought tears to my eyes :)
OP polishgirltx  
30 Apr 2008 /  #38
so my friend is gone... :(((( i took her to the airport....

i need a hug :( a big one :(
szarlotka 8 | 2,208  
30 Apr 2008 /  #39
so my friend is gone... :(((( i took her to the airport....

That must have been hard for you. Friendships that precious never die, they just change a bit. Cheer up PG you will see your friend again, hopefully soon, and you'll just squeeze more joy into a shorter period of time. You'll be webcamming eachother within days!
OP polishgirltx  
30 Apr 2008 /  #40
thanks szarlotka... yeah, the internet really helps... we talked the entire last night as we would like to catch every minute... i didn't sleep, i'm tired and feel sick in my stomach... :(

hey, but ice cream will help a bit now too ;)
OP polishgirltx  
20 Jun 2008 /  #41
i miss her...we exchange messages everyday...but i miss her... i miss those spontaneous talks we have had... i miss the feeling she's there for me and i'm for her (it's still like that, but....) ... i miss taking to her about everything and anything...

friendship is friendship, but the distance makes it more difficult, and especially the time zone...
:(

thank you fire :)
Firestorm 6 | 400  
20 Jun 2008 /  #42
Anytime ))))))))))

I know what its like when friends leave. ))
At first it feels like an emptyness inside you.
But eventually you come to realize.
They didnt leave.
They simply made room for more friends by filling a space in your heart with memories.. )))))))
OP polishgirltx  
20 Jun 2008 /  #43
They simply made room for more friends by filling a space in your heart with memories.. )))))))

ok, im going to cry now for a bit... :(
trisky 1 | 5  
21 Jun 2008 /  #45
Ah friends, they come and go.. It's always sad when you have to part with someone who's in your heart! But in the long run, it will make you stronger.. Feel bad for you :(

Hope you can find some rest and come to terms with it soon!
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
21 Jun 2008 /  #46
I don't know how I missed this thread. Sorry to hear your friend is gone polishgirltx. I hope you feel better soon.
SeanBM 35 | 5,806  
21 Jun 2008 /  #47
You are still friends, meet up every now and again.
I think you are very lucky if you have 2/3 great friends in this life.
Worry not polishgirltx
Eurola 4 | 1,902  
21 Jun 2008 /  #48
polishgrtx, I know what you feel. My friend, my confidante, spur of the moment companion (because she lived close by) is getting married and moving to Las Vegas. She is closing on the house at the end of June... He is here to help her move etc. Of course, I'm very happy for her. She wanted to be married again very much (third one!) :)

Sure we'll keep in touch with all the modern devices available, but it's not the same.

My other girlfriends don't live that close and meeting up needs to be planned. Oh, well, another chapter in life.
OP polishgirltx  
17 Jul 2008 /  #49
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favours.
Careers end.

BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how, many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
plk123 8 | 4,142  
17 Jul 2008 /  #50
there is hugging going on in here? am i still at PF? wtf? hehe
OP polishgirltx  
17 Jul 2008 /  #51
am i still at PF? wtf? hehe

i'm sure you need a hug too.... ;)
wildrover 98 | 4,441  
20 Jul 2008 /  #52
I need one too ..please....
Daisy 3 | 1,224  
20 Jul 2008 /  #54
It'll only end in a fight
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
17 Oct 2008 /  #55
Any thoughts?

Friendship is like the wind.

When the wind is blowing right-wards...the tree moves left

When the wind blows left ward... the tree moves right...

Someone who is friend today...you might not like to see his/her face tommorow!

These are surges of emotions... they go as soon as they come.

Life goes on... find yourself a mate (the mating season will also begin)... plus... make it a husband (my personal opinion).
MrMisterMan - | 15  
18 Oct 2008 /  #56
Some of my best friends are people I don't get to see for a long time, but when I do it's like we've never been apart.

It can hurt, but that's what life experience is all about x
bluebird - | 36  
24 Oct 2008 /  #57
Get yourself Skype and your friend can give you all the gossip from Poland.

Maybe you could visit her some time?

Absence makes the heart grow fonder, as friends and prisoners say.

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