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Fallen for a Polish Guy!! But he's got back to Poland to get married!


tornado2007 11 | 2,274  
3 Apr 2008 /  #31
Forget the loser. You'll have nothing but trouble and a miserable life if you keep in contact with him. He's getting married and he loves you? There must be something seriously wrong with him. The sooner you get him out of you mind the better.

wicked somebody who speaks like me on these matters, i didn't know they existed :)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #32
Did he think you were dating? Although, if he's a stalker he probably did think something was going on.

nah he knows i'm engaged, i have a habit of talking about my fiance all the time lol and even that didnt put him off. he's a decent guy, but the whole situation is making me feel uneasy...

lol i had this guy whom i was dating only for a few weeks and then we split up cos we couldnt see each other very often due to his work... so we stayed friends and i got together with someone else, but that didnt work so me and the first guy decided to give it another go. i waited for him to show up for our date all night and he never have, when i rang he put his mate on the phone (i actually heard him in the background!) to tell me he was still working and will ring me later. he didnt. so i forgot about that and about 3 weeks later he txts me he was away and he's back now so can we meet up and spend the weekend together. i told him where to go lol, but he was still stalking me, leaving me voicemail messages and sh*t. even gave my number to his mate telling him it was someone elses just to caue me some more problems... i dont like stalkers...
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #33
nah he knows i'm engaged, i have a habit of talking about my fiance all the time lol and even that didnt put him off. he's a decent guy, but the whole situation is making me feel uneasy...

I know what you mean. I went on one date with a guy once and apparently we had friends in common and I found out like 3 months later that he was telling people that he's dating me! That made me feel very uneasy..

Yeah, its like they're jerks when you're with them but when you tell them to f*ck off, suddenly they're in love and want to stalk you until you give in. Yeah, men can be weird.
telefonitika  
3 Apr 2008 /  #34
vanishing act you say?

yeah .. doesnt seem to be anywhere about ... not that i am bothered plus my mate has said wooo betide his legs if she gets hold off him .. but doesnt seem to be anywhere (still listed on skype though)

defermate(possible spelt that wrong but english really wasnt my forte at school) my name and character she wont let him get away with oh no !!
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #35
Yeah, its like they're jerks when you're with them but when you tell them to f*ck off, suddenly they're in love and want to stalk you until you give in. Yeah, men can be weird.

i actually told that jerk to f*ck off and then he was calling me all sorts of names for chucking him, but later he said he thinks he will kill himself for being so stupid, and that he's always there and will always love me ha ha. i'm like mate, we've only gone out for 2 weeks and you stood me up the last time i was about to see you! i dont understand that sort of behaviour...

are you sure we are talking about the same person...? lol
telefonitika  
3 Apr 2008 /  #36
are you sure we are talking about the same person...? lol

lol .. well you know about £ end in a z ..... all the aforementioned is true on him and what i have previously told you chick ...

...
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #37
i actually told that jerk to f*ck off and then he was calling me all sorts of names for chucking him, but later he said he thinks he will kill himself for being so stupid, and that he's always there and will always love me ha ha. i'm like mate, we've only gone out for 2 weeks and you stood me up the last time i was about to see you! i dont understand that sort of behaviour...

How dare you not be there where he wants, when he wants and how he wants? lol! I honestly don't understand the way men think sometimes. They ignore you without telling you why and then magically reappear and expect the woman to be delighted. Then they're astounded that the woman wants nothing to do with them.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #38
exactly how dare i?! i was SUPPOSED to hang around and wait for him, aint that right ha ha... it's taken me about 3 days to premamently replace him with my now fiance, we always have a giggle about the crazy Jonny the stalker ;).

lol .. well you know about £ end in a z ..... all the aforementioned is true on him and what i have previously told you chick ...

then we are not talking about the same person, Tele. i was talking about someone else lol!
telefonitika  
3 Apr 2008 /  #39
Tele. i was talking about someone else lol!

its okay .. but i was in agreement with your original statement re: polish guy .. as he was exactly same ... !
Mali - | 300  
3 Apr 2008 /  #40
exactly how dare i?! i was SUPPOSED to hang around and wait for him, aint that right ha ha... it's taken me about 3 days to premamently replace him with my now fiance, we always have a giggle about the crazy Jonny the stalker ;)

Of course you were Justysia. Isn't that what women are here for? LOL
Good for you Justysia to find a real man in your life to replace that pathetic stalker!
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
3 Apr 2008 /  #41
its okay .. but i was in agreement with your original statement re: polish guy .. as he was exactly same ... !

thats cool then. as i said, it cheeses me off that it seems to be almost a rule when it comes to Polish guys, that most of them over in UK are twats or they arent single but they like to think they are... personally after leaving Poland and dating a few guys here (and of course being engaged to one) made me decide i wouldn't date a Polish guy again. it's got nothing to do with the contents of their wallets, i just find the UK guys more funny and more sexy ;)
Jova - | 172  
4 Apr 2008 /  #42
i just find the UK guys more funny and more sexy ;)

I have the same... :/ And I live in Poland, which makes matters really difficult ;))
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
4 Apr 2008 /  #43
i'm sick of all these Polish tossers who leave their wives, girlfriends and fiancees back in Poland, play don Juans abroad and mess women about like this, it almost makes me wanna say 'beware of Polish men, they all cheat'!

With such an overwhelming experience dating Polish guys I'm not surprised you had to leave Poland eventually.

Any guys in Poland you have not dated?
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
4 Apr 2008 /  #44
where have i said that all Polish guys are like this? i said some were, don't need to take it personally you know.
bajka - | 71  
4 Apr 2008 /  #45
its like watching 2 cats fighting...... interesting !
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
4 Apr 2008 /  #46
Before he left he told me he loved me and that I was very special to him. Why has he left me?

Because he doesn't love you and you are not special to him. He lied.
OP Jopper 1 | 8  
4 Apr 2008 /  #47
Interesting comments Sztotja2007, why is it the guy is automatically seen as the bad guy. I also have a partner that I have been with a long time, we both had commitments to other people and never have I suggested that I want him to leave his life he has... He has been honest with his intentions from the day we met; I however kept things very close to me... You automatically assume that this guy has lied to me - this is not my opinion he could say the same about me. I cut off all connection with him its him who is trying to keep contact maybe I'm the bad guy? I have a good life and have never done this before he came along we clicked but we both new we had to carry on with our lives as they were. We agreed together that this is what we should do as neither of us wanted to hurt anyone. So I disagree with some of the comments not all guys are bad and are liars there are some good ones out there.
szkotja2007 27 | 1,499  
4 Apr 2008 /  #48
why is it the guy is automatically seen as the bad guy.

Cos hes getting married.

I also have a partner that I have been with a long time

Two wrongs and all that.

You automatically assume that this guy has lied to me

Based on the initial post, yes, now its a case of whatever floats your boat.

neither of us wanted to hurt anyone

Oh, I see.

bad and are liars there are some good ones out there.

And some are not even engaged !!

Good luck.
bajka - | 71  
4 Apr 2008 /  #49
jopper, your imagining things cos you're in love - well almost have been.

the guys not been honest with you or if he has then you were silly to go with the idea that he will leave his partner in Poland for you.

You obvioulsy gave him what he wanted and now he's got it he's gone home to start his family, maybe it was like a last fling from his side !

get over it !
polishgirltx  
4 Apr 2008 /  #50
Why has he left me?

We do not know that.... only he knows, and you should have an idea why....

i can't really understand you... do you want to hear from us that what you two are doing is ok and everything will be fine? i doubt it ....
bajka - | 71  
4 Apr 2008 /  #51
Jopper:
Why has he left me?

are you fat ?
OP Jopper 1 | 8  
4 Apr 2008 /  #52
thats not what I'm saying I'm not saying I wanted him to leave his partner and he never asked me. I'm not saying your comments are correct just saying that the guy is not always the bad guy and I'm not blinded by love I live in the real world and I'm certainly not some silly young girl who has no clue. The guy was honest and never promised me anything, like i've said we met, we liked eachother and I never realised how much til he went. I diid feel bad that we both have partners. I take on board some of your comments some were good and I will be taking advice on not contacting him, but like I said I have made no attempt to contact him I am moving on, but I do have feelings for this guy I did not realise I had.
plk123 8 | 4,150  
4 Apr 2008 /  #53
why is it the guy is automatically seen as the bad guy.

he told you about having a honey back in PL right off the bat? that's not how it soundede in your first post... hmm
bajka - | 71  
4 Apr 2008 /  #54
The guy was honest and never promised me anything

case closed !
OP Jopper 1 | 8  
4 Apr 2008 /  #55
I can assure you he told me on the first night we met that he had a girlfriend just like I told him, I do take all your comments on board was good to get an outsiders opinion, I also do not like to think someone taking the **** again I'm not stupid. We did not think it would have gone on for a year, and yes he was def honest enough to tell me that's what his life was going to be. Thanks for your opinion tho, interesting to see that guys are as suspicious of guys as us girls... Plk123 interesting Hmm on the end, you very suspicious?
Recaro - | 1  
4 Apr 2008 /  #56
How gullible are you?

Like all Polish people, they are here in the UK for everything they can get. Face facts, you've been had. Literally.

You can make excuses all you like but the absolute fact is that you have been conned.

More fool you.
zoogle 6 | 44  
4 Apr 2008 /  #57
In the end everyone gets what's coming to them one way or another
marek s - | 269  
5 Apr 2008 /  #58
How pathetic does a guy have to be do suddenly vanish? Some guys just need to grow the f*ck up, act like real men and be honest about their intentions.

us men do what you women allow us to get away with, its that simple.

When a guy vanishes, all it says to me is that he's too afraid to deal with the situation.

what it says is that he doesnt care. it has nothing to do with being afraid, simply put, your not worth his time

Forget the loser. You'll have nothing but trouble and a miserable life if you keep in contact with him. He's getting married and he loves you? There must be something seriously wrong with him. The sooner you get him out of you mind the better.

quote of the month!!
Wyspianska  
5 Apr 2008 /  #59
i'm sick of all these Polish tossers who leave their wives, girlfriends and fiancees back in Poland, play don Juans abroad and mess women about like this, it almost makes me wanna say 'beware of Polish men, they all cheat'!

exactamundo! :D

English boys the best ever !
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,163  
5 Apr 2008 /  #60
i'm sick of all these Polish tossers who leave their wives, girlfriends and fiancees back in Poland, play don Juans abroad and mess women about like this, it almost makes me wanna say 'beware of Polish men, they all cheat'!

Nothing like innocent Polish women, right ?

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