My Perfect Love Story so I thought

Well As I said earlier.. I made a promise to her that I will come visit her once and I did go there. I had a visa for Turkey and as well for Schengen states. I went to Warsaw and then I took a bus to Lublin. I thought it was not the correct way just to show up so I had informed her that I would be coming. When the bus was stopped I could see her right in front of my eyes... I never thought I would be able to witness that..I didn't know what to do .. I forgot about everything that happened and any reason..for me it was just her.. i didn't know how to react at first whether to kiss her or to hug her or shake her hands or scream at her ...but I coudn't control myself and I hugged her ... I never wanted to let go of her...I held her tight in my arms...and I cried ... I never asked her any questions..because I knew she had no answers to my questions....She asked me to be her friend ... and stay for my entire vacation there but it seemed like I would be cheating on that guy if I did that..I told her that I can't because things had now changed and I came there to tell her that not everything is glass and I was true to my word...

I told her if she needed a friend she is always welcome..This day I will never forget.. I remember and treasure each moment ... May be I am a fool but I do watch a lot of movies and I remember this dialogue.."If you really love her.. then you should let her go" and that is what I did. I spend one day with her and next day I was off to Prague ... I stayed there for two days with my friend and then I went to Turkey where I spent the remaining days of vacation. But every night I cried and would wake up with wet eyes .. But life goes on..

She moved on .. I also have to and just not to think about her I have forced myself to do a lot of work and keep myself busy as much as I can so that at the end of the day I am so tired that I can't think of nothing...but thoughts do creep up..feelings do come back... I guess it was meant to be. It will take time for me to move on but I will never be able to love anyone as much I loved her. The lesson learned is that don't trust anyone except from yourself because you can't deceive yourself.

Thanks and much appreciated for your comments and some wonderful people who have been very supportive and have actually helped me in this difficult time. May God Bless you all. Have a nice day or night.

Cheers!

Ain't that the truth!

Surprisingly, I've heard of one success story recently. An older gentleman at work, around age 60 met his wife on a dating website. She's 61 years old. Perhaps the online dating concept is working out better for older couples?

It took some decency on her part to at least meet you when you arrived; too bad she wasn’t able to have the same decency in the beginning to be upfront and honest with you…

Internet does NOT work if you'e looking for long-term relationships. Chatboxes, datingsites etc, are just a clever way of cashing in on the loneliness ppl feel. Internet contacts are only good for one-night stands, quick-lays and uncomplicated NSA sex. If you cannot make it in the real world, you cannot make it in the virtual world as well, providing you are yourself on Inet, which everybody claims to be, but no-one hardly ever is.

In short, if you're a failure in the real world by being yourself, you will be a failure in the virtual world as well, unless you take on a role of a person you would like to be, but that is faking and sooner or later you will fall through and be the same old miserable loser you always were. Unfortunately it's like that. Don't believe the crap of character is important. It is, later on, but if the looks are not OK, you won't even get the chance to show your character.

M-G (sad but true)

Love this sentence! but what does a loser mean actually?

Ok, if you insist:

According to the dictionary:

1. a person, team, nation, etc., that loses: The visiting team was the loser in the series.

2. Informal. a. a person who has been convicted of a misdemeanor or, esp., a felony: a two-time loser.
b. a person who has failed at a particular activity: a loser at marriage.
c. someone or something that is marked by consistently or thoroughly bad quality, performance, etc.: Don't bother to see that film, it's a real loser.

3. Slang. a misfit, esp. someone who has never or seldom been successful at a job, personal relationship, etc.

Clearer now?
I always look at the pictures when I look at sites like that and I have a hard time not falling off my chair of laughing when I see the picture and compare it to the description they give of themselves.

I could give more examples of fun like that, but I think that would be hurtful, ah well :)

M-G (sometimes in a good mood)

haha well they have to advertize themselves somehow right? haha and as you said before, everybody lies in the internet. fact!

Second that.

M-G (still needs to do sth about his too stretched avatar)

Not everybody.

Hips don't lie.

neither does bad vaginal hygiene.

M-G (grmbl)

I think everyone puts on a picture which makes your profile look better, or your nose looks better the other way, or you add 3cm to your real height etc, etc...


Cause they cant talk ;)

Whenever I hear a story like yours this image always pops into my mind - you have no idea really who or what you fell in love with, you have never met each other. Don't be so quick to give your heart to someone you have never met. Its just a fantasy! your fantasy and you are projecting your hopes and dreams on a person you have not actually checked out in person, its very dangerous.

Good luck in the future,
Be a little more cautious is my advice.

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