they probably only keep saying they are seeking a relationship...
there are many types of relationships....
or wait, maybe the fact that there are generally more men looking for lurve on websites (at least on this forum) states that men find places like this easier to find women because lets face it, a pretty face and a nice pair of ballons pretty much does it for them, whilst women tend to seek for somebody genuine who will not use them... how's that?
while we are simple creatures, atleast you know what we are all about.
women on the other hand look at what a man has/owns and such.
while at first it doesnt make much difference to a women what a guy has or not, it does if she plans on dating him.