Married a Polish guy. Now what?

Now you're saying this to me?
Now? Twenty years too late?

And to think I could have had 3 Polish TV channels ;)

urszula

I heard a saying many years ago - evil thinkers evil doers - so like most have said - he's blaming you for his actions...hard to do but ask him to leave, ensure you have a friend there (one that can take care of himself that is) lifes to short to walk on egg shells.

Then you could ask Mr F over - half greek half polish, hmm nice combo

Urszula;
This is really sad. You are getting a lot of advice on here. But it is you to have to make that decision.
Do you want to go through the rest of your life like this????
LIFE IS TOO SHORT AND YOU ARE HALF WAY THERE.
Hell! 41 yrs old. shucks , you are in the prime of your life.. ENJOY,WHAT TIME YOU HAVE LEFT.

He might be meaning various things... e.g 'games over' :)

I think he's using you sweetie! That sucks!! So send his sorry ass back to Poland!! I call men like him sponges cos they soak up evrything you have to give, hold it and dot give anything back to you! So selfish and uncaring!!!! Find someone you deserve!!! Its not right to carry the burden of HIS insecurities!!! Go girl!!!! xx

urszula - I think the main thing is, you loved him at one point and now also, I think. Go back to what brought you together. Marriage is not about what you feel at the moment. Emotions are very hard to control and always change. In love there is always drama. The main thing try to calm him down and you down. And just be patient. Patient with him and yourself. Nothing happened. Just emotions.

This is what happens if you fall in love over the internet! Classic scenario!

it doesn't always happens like that... urszula just wasn't lucky...

There are plenty of guys you can choose out here but I don't understand why you have to go to Poland to find someone who does not speak English and who is taking advance of your kindness. I must say love makes us blind and we all becomes victim of it.

jerks are here, jerks are there, jerks are everywhere... and love makes people stupid... that's the problem...