is he married or not?

i can't win can i lol

***update on this***

Still none the wiser. lol

Saw him in the club tonight, he smiled and winked and then continually watched me from a distance.
He won't come over to me and i refuse to do the running.
Should i make the first move or forget him.

God you men are soooooooooooooo complicated!!!!

i know one or two of them who are polish .. and they actually enjoy playing and leading you on with no intentions ... believe me ... be careful lisa hunnie


I had this done to me recently with a polish male .... but i was at a venue where he worked and when i arrived he said briefly hello ... smiled and went to touch my arm .. then according to my mate who was watching everything .... he kept looking at me .. and when he saw me and sometimes my mate together looking(perving haha)at him he would smile and wink discreetly

but i am no none the wiser ... he still talks occassionally on GG to me and last night i was watching a cracking good film "disturbia" and he sent me a message along the lines of "how are you? ;-P ..... then "tara where are you?"


sounds familiar to me ... he wanted to meet up then wouldnt give a date


Indeed most men are .. some are predictable and some you can read like a book

Hope it goes okay for you hunnie

If it's this hard work already i would try really hard to put him to the back of your mind.

I've just had the same thing with my Polish guy who drives me nuts!

First of all I couldn't tell if he liked me or not, so I spent ages trying to figure it all out and then all of a sudden we got together one night and he said he really liked me so much but wanted to wait for a special moment to tell me. Then after that he was all distant again, but not in a 'I got what I want kind of way' more like he was just busy, but i couldn't tell what he was thinking or if he still liked me, so I thought it was all off again and then he calls me and everythings alright!?

He is very complicated and I think if its this hard when its just starting out, how much harder will it get? Its supposed to be fun and exciting in the early days!

I think the fact that this all began with a lie is the deal breaker. He said he was married, then acted as if he weren't. So whether or not he is married, he lied about it. By accepting him, you've already said, "It's okay to lie to me." Find an honest person, you'll be much happier in the long run.

Thats true.

I think I said to my guy 'its ok to play games with me' and now i'm moaning about it!! I'm such a typical woman! haha

hes a player

All men are players to a certain degree, but women are the bigger players, they just never admit to it.....

games haha
i never play, dont wanna waste my time. If boy wants to play with me, than he will be a looser sooner or later.

well tryin to move on seen a really nice guy on dating direct from lublin. He sent me a wink so sent one back but i'm not a member so can't email. :-(

Good for you Lisa....you deserve someone who is worthy of your time, and this polish chap just doesn't seem to be worthy, imho.

i agree.. if hes that good looking and knows it and by the way he is acting, he is defiinitely a player. If he had wanted to be with you he had the opportunity, and he knows you like him so he wants to keep you dangling in case he changes his mind. Hard as it is, try to forget him unless you are just up for fun. If its a relationship you want he doesnt sound like a good prospect. Good luck.