What makes Polish girls tick - or is it just women in general....:-)

And still not mature enough to tell the woman you once loved the truth? I'm not saying I'm perfect, but when I ever get married, I'd make sure she knows every in and out about my personal world..


First of, you're not being honest to your ex-wife, so that's pretty clear isn't it?

So hey, I'm not judging you, and it's your life, but atleast be honest to yourself.. What sort of girl would trust a man who leaves his wife for another girl and hides that fact from his wife? (or ex-wife at that time, I doubt it. :) )

Anyway, if she says she doesn't trust you, then she's also not really in love with you. How long have you been married? I take it you didn't learn *that* much from relationships then? A relationship is based on trust.. So if there is no trust, that should tell you something about either yourself, or the girl you're with.

Sorry if I'm being rude, you've asked for comments so I'm just speaking my mind loud and clear and hope it'll help you make the right decision for yourself. :) I know the truth may be a little cold sometimes, but it's better.


Again, you left your wife for her, and you're hiding that. Not exactly an inspiring display of being trustworthy is it? I think you already know. :)


Only people who are hiding something, are afraid to tell. She'll hear about it sooner or later anyway, and you'll only hurt her feelings worse because she may reason you've cheated on her. (I also get that impression because you're hiding things.) So do yourself a favour, and tell your ex-wife when the time is right, it will save you both a lot of hurt and trouble..

But only when she asks you if you're seeing someone else. :)


You didn't marry this woman for nothing, you've made her a promise once. It's your life and your own responsibility, but atleast treat her with the respect she deserves? :)


Yes, why do you call Polish girls thick when you're intrigued by a Polish girl who's obviously much younger than yourself? Why do you call her thick when it's pretty clear to me that she may be right?

Again, my honest thoughts. Hope it helps you. :)

Dazzer, somehow I don't think people are going to be so sympathetic to your cause, s'just the way its gonna be. And I 'ain't judging you but 16 years older, technically you could be her father? Does the age thing not concern you.

Mrs J, I hope in some way the words off the forum have helped :)

As for Dazzer, his new relationship is doomed and not because of the age difference, some women like old men (ewwww) but because she has got his number :) well and truely

That is ridiculous! If your husband slept with another woman when he was traveling what makes you think this was the first time. Be independent and move on .... don't punish the polish woman for sleeping with him ... you should punish your husband ... he is the deceiving prick! Girls will be girls and no matter what... there will be a woman that will be willing to sleep with a married man, but its the man who is suppose to be committed and suppose to stay true to the relationship. He is the one to blame, not the polish girl!