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"Let's leave beautiful women for men with poor sexual imagination"


JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
25 Feb 2008 /  #121
So ''I have a polish girlfriend'' is among the perfect answers.It means

obedient?? hmmm. id change that to loyal, we do have minds of our own. i fully agree with the rest of it. :)
OP tusia 1 | 20  
26 Feb 2008 /  #122
Fine. I’ll tell you my story then.

One year ago I’ve met Him. Who is my husband now. I cannot say anything about that meeting, people call it lightning. His is one of those men we call Prince, handsome, caring, irresistible…we were attracted to each other from the very moment we’ve seen each other. After two dates he had proposed to marry him and I began to laugh as far as we knew each other for 10 days. He told that he’s found the woman he really needs. The situation was dramatic, we’re from different countries (he’s German), I had to move to the UK for my studies, he also has his business in France and Switzerland. He told that he doesn’t want to lose me; in such a situation the marriage would preserve our relationships. So we did. Now we’re travelling every weekend, but he plans to buy a flat in London.

In this idyllic space one small problem. His Polish ex. They had been living together for 3 years before he met me…that evening he left her. One evening while in Germany, she called, I picked up and this representative of “the best women in the world” presented herself in such a way that I wished to wash her mouth with good soap. My husband told me that she’s very proud of being polish and repeated it every day. Also she asked very often whether he considers her the most beautiful girl in the world (I think, I’ve heard it somewhere before;)))

After these screams from the cars here, in UK, as I told you before, we have in my family a lot of jokes about polish girls. They’re symbol of “much noise from nothing”. She continues to call, especially the weekends and late at nights (in hope to interrupt ;)

I don’t want to generalize, I’m stating what happened, but same occurred to my best friend. Her Polish BF left his Polish ex who was mad. She couldn’t realise HOW he dared to do this.

These poor creatures begin to OVERestimate (this is for you, southern) their power, but, in fact, they care more about themselves than about their relationships. As a result – a lot of complexes and tears. They’re like …fish, not alive… They’re hiding behind this polish label and think that work is done, guys have to scream and dance around them. And you, guys, praying for them, only make the situation worse: when they’re facing the bitter truth of being of average value, the heart is already broken.

Polish girls are good enough until you meet someone better. But if you cannot, something is better than nothing.

Maybe I'm mistaken, but facts are severe thing
southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Feb 2008 /  #123
tusia

So why do you bother?
polishgirltx  
26 Feb 2008 /  #124
before he met me…that evening he left her

After two dates he had proposed to marry him and I began to laugh as far as we knew each other for 10 days

he used a method "klina klinem"

that's odd, it went so fast...
jones101 1 | 349  
26 Feb 2008 /  #125
It has nothing to do with her being Polish. You met him the night they split up. He was on the rebound. That never works.

Anyone who marries without spending at living a year with someone is bound to be disappointed. You cannot know someone in 3 dates.

An women all over the world act like her...it is not a cultural thing.
southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Feb 2008 /  #126
These poor creatures begin to OVERestimate (this is for you, southern) their power

Their power is still there.

They’re like …fish, not alive… They’re hiding behind this polish label and think that work is done, guys have to scream and dance around them.

Actually I found that polish girls try to work hard in relationships to keep the man.

when they’re facing the bitter truth of being of average value

If they are of average value.They are usually far above average value.

Polish girls are good enough until you meet someone better

I would like to meet a polish girl again.

I think tusia comes from Ukraine.Or France.
OP tusia 1 | 20  
26 Feb 2008 /  #127
I'm not bothered at all.
A little bit, I really didn't want to make her suffer.

Don't worry about me, Jones. I know how to make my husband happy.

I do agree, relationships is hard work where polish brand won't help alone.

"Polish girls are good enough until you meet someone better", here I'm siting my friend. "If you cannot find what you want, something is better than nothing", here is another saying from my country.

I wish I really could have friends from Poland. We have some common history ;) I don't want to develop stereotypes against them. But till today haven't met any normal.
southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Feb 2008 /  #128
Polish girls are good enough until you meet someone better",

"If you cannot find what you want, something is better than nothing",

You mean polish girls are a poor substitute?
What is the real thing?
I have tasted every nationality of slavic women and I would stick to polish given the chance.
miranda  
26 Feb 2008 /  #129
It has nothing to do with her being Polish. You met him the night they split up. He was on the rebound. That never works.Anyone who marries without spending at living a year with someone is bound to be disappointed. You cannot know someone in 3 dates.An women all over the world act like her...it is not a cultural thing.

i fully agree.
southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Feb 2008 /  #130
I have experienced quite a good number of situations when western (for example) guys left their girlfriends soon after they got acquainted with girls from Poland,

I see some opposite conclusions at the end.
OP tusia 1 | 20  
26 Feb 2008 /  #131
I don't know. I will believe that not when the opposite will be proven (my English is quite something I should say :))

I have some feeling...when I asked him about her after that call, he told simply "she shouldn't be the object of your attention"

I have this small "being-predator" feeling...during her call she told that "everything was great between them until me, ......... ........... has appeared"

She doesn't leave us.

Real thing, southern, is real woman. Who is not humiliating herself after the lost game.
jones101 1 | 349  
26 Feb 2008 /  #132
Your husband/boyfriend is too blame too as he keeps talking to her....as do you.

How about both of you ignore her?
OP tusia 1 | 20  
26 Feb 2008 /  #133
No, southern, the topic, I've posted concerns not me only, that would be too easy.
I've read your posts and I know your transversal slavic experience :) I laughed a lot when read your opinion about girls from my country. What say, you're not the only one who thinks that way, and I understand why. Being with polish is your personal choice. I just don't like this artificial divine appreciation where polish is the centre of the world and others - like this, for comparison. Extreme is not healthy. As far as I've understood, you've lost the person you really liked or loved. And she appeared to be polish. And you continue to look for polish, while have to look for person. Maybe I'm mistaken. What makes me feel intriguing about your future is that you are one of those men who seems to know everything, full of complicated calculations and statistical analyses, and one day girl, let's say, from Belarus, will fall on your head like snow. And you quickly forget about what you wanted before. Only unexpected and unpredicted make life brighter.

Jones, we do ignore her.

Actually, the primary reason that leads me to forums like this is to discover more about other Slavics, what they are, what look they have on these and that....and relationships.

Sometimes prejudices work. For example, we call Bulgarians, extremely and terribly sorry, "gypsies". I denied it until the first and the only one Bulgarian whom I knew has stolen my money. Our frienship with this girl finished after two weeks of life in one room of student residence with unpleasant recollections and couple of things out of my property.

Apart that, I know people from every Slavic country, besides Poland.
Prejudices against Poles...I have a list ;)
miranda  
26 Feb 2008 /  #134
Who is not humiliating herself after the lost game.

game? Ithough we were talking about love here. Sometimes we humiliate ourselves when love is in the picture.

I think that you are scared to loose him. You come accross as somebody who has a small mind, is vindictive and insecure.

Good luck;)
OP tusia 1 | 20  
26 Feb 2008 /  #135
If you love you let person go.
She is selfish
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
26 Feb 2008 /  #136
Real thing, southern, is real woman. Who is not humiliating herself after the lost game

true

game? Ithough we were talking about love here. Sometimes we humiliate ourselves when love is in the picture.

trueIt all depends on the situation - broken hearted people do all sorts of silly things, personally I feel that its just best for a woman to walk away with head held high
southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Feb 2008 /  #137
and one day girl, let's say, from Belarus, will fall on your head like snow. And you quickly forget about what you wanted before

Actually I had one girl from Belarus.Such a sweetheart.And very cultured,I mean impressive.She told me that in Belarus polish girls are considered to be very beautiful.

Belarus is maybe the only place left in Europe where girls are still unspoiled by consumerism.
jones101 1 | 349  
26 Feb 2008 /  #138
Prostitutes don't count Southern.
southern 75 | 7,096  
26 Feb 2008 /  #139
Jones101 prostitutes from Belarus are very few.If you mean another country,I do not know.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
26 Feb 2008 /  #140
His is one of those men we call Prince, handsome, caring, irresistible…

After two dates he had proposed

They had been living together for 3 years before he met me…that evening he left her

yeah he SO sounds like the prince. not. and you are a relationship braker, congratulations.

As for the Polish ex, her behaviour has nothing to do with Polish pride and thoughts such as 'how dare he leave me im so great cos im Polish'. how would YOU feel if your partner of 3 years left you, and then asked this girl he had only seen twice to marry him? would you not be hurt and embarassed? would you not be furious? he is happy to throw away 3 years of their lives together just like that, and then all of the sudden he gets hitched again. i imagine she felt (and still does) it was all a lie, the life she had with him, and that he had never truly loved her. now what makes you think that this 'prince' will not leave you in the exact same way when he feels the 'lightning' at meeting some other woman? his ex is not acting in a right way, she should let it go and never give it another thought, but when people get hurt like this it sometimes takes longer for them to see through their anger and do the right thing - move on. she wants to make your lives hell, and when you think about it - can you really blame her? you made her life hell. i sugeest you change your phone number and stop making fun of her. you have nothing to be proud of. now you watch your husband and pray he decides to stick to one woman for good this time.
Ranj 21 | 948  
26 Feb 2008 /  #141
he is happy to throw away 3 years of their lives together just like that, and then all of the sudden he gets hitched again. i imagine she felt (and still does) it was all a lie, the life she had with him, and that he had never truly loved her.

This reminds me of a celebrity quote, by Sharon Stone: "Women have the ability to fake orgasms, whereas men have the ability to fake entire relationships." I probably should have put that in the quote thread, but it applies here also, I think:)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240  
26 Feb 2008 /  #142
Women have the ability to fake orgasms, whereas men have the ability to fake entire relationships

this is scarily true
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
13 Feb 2009 /  #144
It's uncanny how often I see this in Poland, a Polish stunner with a lugheid (ugly man). Ah well, there's always lesbianism ;)
wildrover 98 | 4,451  
13 Feb 2009 /  #145
Polish stunner with a lugheid

he wouldn,t happen to be rich would he....?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
14 Feb 2009 /  #146
Well I wonder..... (another Smiths song I think)

Probably yes.

I was right, lugubrious sounding Morrissey doing his thing :)
Easy_Terran 3 | 312  
14 Feb 2009 /  #147
what makes you think that this 'prince' will not leave you in the exact same way when he feels the 'lightning' at meeting some other woman?

I think that's exactly what she fears could happen, ergo she's looking for confirmation that Polish girls are stupid, not worthy, loud and not that pretty at all.

She's looking for confirmation that she's better than any Polish woman and that the Prince Charming will never leave her 'just like that'.
osiol 55 | 3,922  
14 Feb 2009 /  #148
I'd like to hear the opinion of experts.

Oh dear.
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
14 Feb 2009 /  #149
Come on we're experts :-]
Foreigner4 12 | 1,768  
14 Feb 2009 /  #150
tusia

y'know, if i could disagree with you, i would (i honestly would). But i can't, the polish women on this forum hate you for it but there is quite a bit of the correct within post #122.

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