Thanks Maati, it's nice to hear a friendly voice here after so much hate.
Listen, Jose, this forum is not a very representative for Polish people, really.
I have been living in Warsaw all my life (with short breaks for travelling ).My whole family is from Warsaw from at least 4 generations back.
I know this city and the people here.
Please, come here and visit or even stay, if you want and do not worry about some posts on here.
Before you are visiting Poland, check all immigration rules for American citizens.
And yes, Latino and Spanish culture is a big trend here now, so u may come in the right time.
All my female friends go to salsa or flamenco classes, instead of fitness or swimming pool.
You are welcomed in Poland !
A woman is a woman. Skin color is only skin deep, the rest is all the same.
I love your post !
I also didn't expect ever in my life that I'll fell in love in my bf :)
Many people will tend to show it as a fascination with "exotic look/ dark-skinned guy".They will also point out that we do not have too many African/dark-skinned people here in Poland. And it's not true, because here where I live in Poland , we always have had people from many countries, even during communists times . I live in Saska Kepa in Warsaw and I'm 26. As a small girl I had "mulatto" friends in a kindergarden and in primary school. There was this family living "in the block"next door, that have three kids, all of them my friends. Mother was Polish, father was African, a doctor. We all were playing well with other kids from our area, no hate ...
I think people who wasn't there, never will understand and accept that my relationship and children are in this world out of a big and true love . I also don't see a skin colour in my boyfriend. Yes, he is a very handsome man, which is sometimes not too good , since other women find him interesting :) However, he doesn't seem "exotic" to me.
Actually, he seems very close. We are really very similar. We hold the same values and opinion on many things. Once, somebody from Cuba said to us-"Oh, you look alike", and it wasn't a joke !