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Maati 1 | 178  
28 Dec 2006 /  #211
Thanks Maati, it's nice to hear a friendly voice here after so much hate.

Listen, Jose, this forum is not a very representative for Polish people, really.
I have been living in Warsaw all my life (with short breaks for travelling ).My whole family is from Warsaw from at least 4 generations back.

I know this city and the people here.
Please, come here and visit or even stay, if you want and do not worry about some posts on here.
Before you are visiting Poland, check all immigration rules for American citizens.
And yes, Latino and Spanish culture is a big trend here now, so u may come in the right time.
All my female friends go to salsa or flamenco classes, instead of fitness or swimming pool.
You are welcomed in Poland !

A woman is a woman. Skin color is only skin deep, the rest is all the same.

I love your post !

I also didn't expect ever in my life that I'll fell in love in my bf :)

Many people will tend to show it as a fascination with "exotic look/ dark-skinned guy".They will also point out that we do not have too many African/dark-skinned people here in Poland. And it's not true, because here where I live in Poland , we always have had people from many countries, even during communists times . I live in Saska Kepa in Warsaw and I'm 26. As a small girl I had "mulatto" friends in a kindergarden and in primary school. There was this family living "in the block"next door, that have three kids, all of them my friends. Mother was Polish, father was African, a doctor. We all were playing well with other kids from our area, no hate ...

I think people who wasn't there, never will understand and accept that my relationship and children are in this world out of a big and true love . I also don't see a skin colour in my boyfriend. Yes, he is a very handsome man, which is sometimes not too good , since other women find him interesting :) However, he doesn't seem "exotic" to me.

Actually, he seems very close. We are really very similar. We hold the same values and opinion on many things. Once, somebody from Cuba said to us-"Oh, you look alike", and it wasn't a joke !
Frank 23 | 1,183  
28 Dec 2006 /  #212
Maati...good points, people in Poland are naturally conservative...new ways of doing things, interacting with other peoples etc have yet to become common place, Polish people will have to open their minds to other concepts the way the EU ( UK, Ireland, Denmark ) have opened their own borders for them to come and work.

Returning Polish people will "seed" the nation with new ideas, theories, openess not seen before, it will take time.

On the one hand everyone loves new things...on the other, they are scared/suspicious..only natural....but things will become different......hopefully for the better....
marek_USA  
28 Dec 2006 /  #213
who cares who other people marry, why is it anyone elses business????.........there are always going to be people who marry interracialy and people who don't...........if you are in an interracial relationship its no one elses business, who cares if they dont like you, why care what they think of you.........there are always going to be people who dont like you for whatever reason or accept you so just pay attention to your own life............i think people in interracial relationships make the mistake of trying to make everyone agree with them and accept them --> you know always saying things like true love being blind and so on, and that we are all the same, well no **** geniuses..........but the people you are trying to convince of that will not accept it regardless of what arguments you use, its a useless fight........they have their own justifications and that is it........I don't think either side should be trying to convince someone else of their beliefs as the only way........if someones doesnt agree with interracial relationships or cross cultural well then that is their business as well, as long as they arent hurting you physically i dont think they should have to agree with you.........some people are multicultural fascists in that sense and mixing is the only or best solution, and everyone else that doesn't agree with them is either racist of prejiduce; but what they fail to see is that they are being prejiduce to anyone that doesn't agree with them, even if they arent actually doing anything to hurt them......

I live in a big Indian community, lots of Sikh people and they tend to stick together more than anyone I know when it comes to marriage and so on........but for the most part they are very pleasant people, obviously there are some idiots, but they are hard working and very motivated...........they haven't hurt me in any way but they tend to stick to their own people, so is it wrong for what they are doing???..........the fact that they wouldnt be thrilled about a black or white person marrying their so or daughter doesnt make them a bad person, or evil or something.........maybe their culture has lots to do with ethnic pride and that they are all from the same region..........it doesnt mean they dont do other good things like donate blood and charity for the entire community........

the point is that both sides should be nice to each other, but it isnt a universal right for everyone to agree on this issue.......... some people just see ethnicity as a big part of culture and some don't........the end.........

Returning Polish people will "seed" the nation with new ideas, theories, openess not seen before, it will take time.

On the one hand everyone loves new things...on the other, they are scared/suspicious..only natural....but things will become different......hopefully for the better....

Polish people are especially weary of change and changes in social dynamics, its more to do with trust than being scared.........we've been ****** over many times in the past, even by our own allies and not just from ww2, but in general.........that is the reason for that particular type of mentality among some of our people..........
matek1  
28 Dec 2006 /  #214
India, China, Africa and Native Americans had as many contributions to science, culture, technology and all human affairs as did the Europeans. Your problem is that you read your history filtered through a Eurocentric lens. Your brainwashing and hate don't allow you to see that the "brown" races have contributed as much to this world as the Europeans. Puertoricans are born US citizens if you didn't know.

Really name and list these accomplishments that have done more then europeans.. All I hear you spouti is the word "hate" because you have nothing to back your statements up with. Your post here is another hilarious line of crap.

What's wrong is ultra nationalist movements. The world has been down that road before with tens of millions died for no reason.

Like I said to bad for you they are growing. I suppose fidel castro's ideas are better? you make me laugh. It was a war millions die in wars. Millions died for nothing in other parts of the world. You had a ton of questions to awnser in the last posts but you know its the truth so you coulden't comment

The power of America was built on the slave labor of displaced Africans, Chinese and Mexicans. So the white Americans themselves could never have done it themselves.

If you count picking apples and working in fields then sure. News flash africans where already enlsaved by there own. They were actually treated better when they came here. Mexicans? are a mixed breed of european , nice try. I suppose it was them who built the likes of the hoover dam? and such? I could go on all day.

Hitler said only the true Master Race would survive. In his bunker in his last days he realized all his stupidity was garbage and blew his brains out.

How do you know what hitler was thinking his final day? Actually he gave his life for his people. The famous che guerva was on his hands and knees BEGGING for his life when they killed him. Some revolutionary for the "PEOPLE" lmao!

Euro bloodlines, Mestizo bloodlines, any bloodline is crap. 7 million years ago WE (Me and Matek, unga unga, LOL) were chimpanzees swinging from trees = pliopithecus, australopithecus. The only reason some humans are white is that the first black humans migrated to northern climates where the black skin was not necessary.

So what your saying is we shouldent have maintained our blood line this far? Your posts make no sense at all. Just because your of mixed race dosent mean we should be. Compare the accomplishments for me. Compare mexico to germany. Please do so. Instread of rambling on about crap you and no info about. Again why are you here? Superman a black has taken a intrest in the culture but you just come here spouting crap telling everyone to mix and that if we don't we are following in hitlers footsteps.

I don't think any outside ethnic group has the right to come to another nation and not want to assimilate

You know damn well large numbers don't assumilate. Don;t try to twist your crooked views now.

Also calling people of different ethnicities mongrels, animals and subhumans like some have done here is criminal to say the least.

Go back through this thread and find a post where anyone has used these worlds no one has said any such thing. Your living in a fantasy land. Probibly in your late 30s with no woman or life. Says alote about you really.

Start posting facts or shut up
Frank 23 | 1,183  
28 Dec 2006 /  #215
Thats a wrap guys........

Admin....close this thread!
josecitomadera  
28 Dec 2006 /  #216
but you just come here spouting crap telling everyone to mix and that if we don't we are following in hitlers footsteps.

You make me laugh. I never said that everyone that doesn't mix is following in Hitler's footsteps. You have a problem with English comprehension or you like to twist words. Hispanics, latinos in general are not obsessed about being mixed or not. You're the one that is obsessed with this. We are latinos and that's it. You're not latino so your opinions don't count. As a ethnic group latinos of all socio-cultural anbd ethnic backgrounds are quite united.

Hitler never gave a rat's ass about his people. He sacrificed the nation's youth ( Hitler Youth) to protect him while he cried like a little baby in his bunker. He wasn't man enough to confront the Russians himself but put a bullet in his head. He was a lunatic who happened to make his garbage national policy. He told Mohnke and Speer that the German people deserved to die beacuse the weak die as a result of the superior races overtaking them. He was crazy. Most sensible Germans today are embarrased by that pitiful little man.

Matek, don't bother replying because I won't be answering.

........I don't think either side should be trying to convince someone else of their beliefs as the only way........if someones doesnt agree with interracial relationships or cross cultural well then that is their business as well, as long as they arent hurting you physically i dont think they should have to agree with you.....

I agree Marek. Arguing with Matek is useless. He's an ultranationalist racist extremist. It's sad that someone can have such views in this new millenium. I have nothing more to say to him.

This question goes out to all the reasonable Poles here (Matek, obviously excluded). Are Slavs in general all united despite the differing ethnic and cultural backgrounds? Latinos in general are so I was just wondering.
hilderbrandt  
28 Dec 2006 /  #217
josecitomadera

You start alote of topics in this thread and then don't awnser when you are called out? I have been reading this thread and notice all you do is start things and then don't awnser up. Please find another forum to start trouble. You sound more like a biggot then alote of people here. If you are going to start discussions be prepared to awnser up properly.

To awnser you question slaves are united at one time. Another person may be able to awnser better as I have more germanic ancestry.
Lonestranger  
28 Dec 2006 /  #218
How do you know what hitler was thinking his final day? Actually he gave his life for his people. The famous che guerva was on his hands and knees BEGGING for his life when they killed him. Some revolutionary for the "PEOPLE" lmao!

Tells you something of what Mr. Matek is made of... 'thanks for explaining yourself matek :) '

Why close this thread?... we have free speech...

Another person may be able to awnser better as I have more germanic ancestry.

I personally neither hate NOR LOVE the germans. I dont have any problem if a Polish of any community whatsoever have greater feelings for germans. ... I felt like saying it, no hard feelings!

people in Poland are naturally conservative...new ways of doing things, interacting with other peoples etc have yet to become common place, Polish people will have to open their minds to other concepts the way the EU ( UK, Ireland, Denmark ) have opened their own borders for them to come and work.

Frank, I agree your idea. But, as far as I feel (or have experienced), older Polish people seem more conservative than the younger generation. It always occurs to me that the younger generation is more inclined to people from other communities. My opinion.

Finally... this forum tells alot about Poland (I think). We do have people like Matek and Guest3... and also people like Maati and Marek and Frank... but, the vast Polish Majority is with people who were never racist...from anytime in history.

It is my sincere belief that Polish people have the most beautiful heart in Europe. And this heart has never been defeated...and never will be.
Arien  
28 Dec 2006 /  #219
Thats a wrap guys........

Admin....close this thread!

you know, I'm really starting to appreciate your presence here frank. :) :)
Frank 23 | 1,183  
28 Dec 2006 /  #220
It is my sincere belief that Polish people have the most beautiful heart in Europe. And this heart has never been defeated...and never will be.

Guys...there are one or too loose ends...I have asked on this thread before...about Polish attitudes towards Jews in their country ( before WWII and during), never really recieved a satisfactory answer...anyone care to volunteer one?

you know, I'm really starting to appreciate your presence here frank.

I know Arien, and it only took 500 plus posts!!!....lol
Arien  
28 Dec 2006 /  #221
hey, it seems you've quoted me but I didn't write the first quote? just felt like rectifying that. :)

ah well, I'm a typical dutchy I guess. first you get nothing, then you get loads of hostility, then you get into rude discussions, and if you're patient enough I might become friendly. :)

I believe the irish are world-famous for being a stubborn lot aswell? :)
Lonestranger  
28 Dec 2006 /  #222
that was my writing Frank :):P
josecitomadera  
28 Dec 2006 /  #223
You start alote of topics in this thread and then don't awnser when you are called out? I have been reading this thread and notice all you do is start things and then don't awnser up. Please find another forum to start trouble. You sound more like a biggot then alote of people here. If you are going to start discussions be prepared to awnser up properly.

I have answered all the questions started. There is no use talking to a racist. Calling an entire race of people inferior because they have different phenotypes and genotypes is absurd. A true superior mindset doesn't ramble on about bloodlines, how the white race is superior and other drivel. Superior minds don't put down those they perceive as lacking but aid them to rise up to the occassion.

Its a known fact that India, China, Africa and other so called "inferior races" made many contributions to mathematics (algebra - the Arabs) , science (astronomy- Mayans) , medicine (ayurvedic holisitic practices, invasive surgery - India). The list goes on and on.

Matek has this Hitlerian view of the world. It is the view of a simpleton. The world is intertwined and many of the fair white European nations or their progeny like America depend on the "inferior races" for financing. Who do you think has enabled the Americans to continue on their debt binge if it weren't for the Chinese and Japanese who buy up all those T-bills and gov't bonds?

Yes we the inferior people of the world are necessary. If not the entire world economy would have collapsed a long time ago. If the Chinese were to dump all their US holdings onto the world markets, the collapse would make the Great Depression seem like a weekend sale at Costcos.

You sound more like a biggot then alote of people here

Why? I love Europeans and all the GOOD people of the world. What I don't like are racist people because given the chance they would do alot of damage like history has shown.
Frank 23 | 1,183  
28 Dec 2006 /  #224
hey, it seems you've quoted me but I didn't write the first quote? just felt like rectifying that.

ah well, I'm a typical dutchy I guess. first you get nothing, then you get loads of hostility, then you get into rude discussions, and if you're patient enough I might become friendly.

I believe the irish are world-famous for being a stubborn lot aswell?

Stubborn...aint the word for it...arien.........lol........would give an ass a sore head......:)

that was my writing Frank :P

Apols to both of you............thanx lone....:)
YANTA  
28 Dec 2006 /  #225
I wanted to stay out of this but josecto you seem very pro comminist view. clearly you have never experianced a soviet regimine. I noticed you go on about china also a communist country. Communists rank right up there with hitler in ways which take advantage of groups of people. The soviet government didn't give a damn about their own people they also raped and beat innocet german woman after the red flag was put up in berlin. I don't see how third world countries contribute in the ways you say they do. History clearly shows that is false. I agree that the majority of the western world was built by europeans because you can clearly see it. If you disagree please point us with some facts that show differen't. When you look at the world everyone wants to be in a european based society now why is that? Why didn't you stay in puerto ricco? you came the the usa for a better life correct? Why not pick a place like mexico since we are all equal or even afghanistan or IRAQ even india. These types of places are a disaster. I have a very good persian friend who fled the middle east because of muslim take over. You need to learn some history and know that the middle east used to be a aryan kingdom you are crazy to say everyone there is mixed. The aryans also invaded india a very long time ago and that gene is still carried there today. Places like afganistan and other middle eastern countries also carry many "white" persons. Turkey on the other hand has a brutal history of rape and theift they also stole babies from places like greece and armenia. They have acutally done tests that show there is no direct turkish gene pool. Anyone who disagrees with you views is suddenly labeled a nazi which is sick , personally i couldent care less what you think. If we all wanted to get really nasty I could post racial crime stats from the usa. Multicultralism is not a old thing its new and its a failed process. like others have said here do you rag on jews because they dont mix? you claim to live in new york are you out calling the jewish population and faith racist and hitler like? and that they should be mixing or else they are copying hitlers ideas? please awnser the question. I have many israeli friends and they are very strong to there beliefs about marrying another jew. Are you calling them followers of hitler? I certainly hope not. DOWN WITH COMMUNISM!! :) I should also add what the soviets did to there own people when chernobyl went down , heres a dust mask! go clean up radioactive material. sickening when they did to innocent people so please do not praise the soviet. BTW i think hitler was austrian not german :)

Asian: 104
White: 102
Mestizo: 92
US-resident Black: 85
African Black: 70

Thats a basic survey done. Further reaserch shows germans have a average of 107 and european jews 112!

Yanta, could you please expound upon this for me? What exactly does this survey mean? Thanks very much.

This is a basic survey I pulled from the net and it shows your average inteligence scores by race.

btw puerto riccan girls are damn hot! nices asses ever!
josecitomadera  
28 Dec 2006 /  #226
Please, come here and visit or even stay, if you want and do not worry about some posts on here.

Any salsa clubs in Warsaw which you would recommend.
josecitomadera  
28 Dec 2006 /  #227
The aryans also invaded india a very long time ago and that gene is still carried there today. Places like afganistan and other middle eastern countries also carry many "white" persons.

What constitutes the White European race that created the World according to Yanta?
There are no pure whites anywhere?

Fredrik Reinfeldt, the Prime Minister of Sweden is, according to the one-drop rule, clasified as black. His paternal great-great-grandfather was a Mulatto from New York



Eurola 4 | 1,902  
28 Dec 2006 /  #228
yawn...yawn...
This is so boring. Admin, maybe we could limit the long essays to 3-4 paragraphs only?
josecitomadera  
28 Dec 2006 /  #229
For instance, all the British Royal Family might be of African ancestry, because of descent from Margarita de Castro e Souza, a Portuguese of possibly mixed origins, who was known at her time for having a "Moorish" appearance.
matek1  
28 Dec 2006 /  #230
Yes please close this thread. WE go from asking questions to this clown awnsering questions with cut and pastes from wikipedia. Everything you type is here say. If you don't intend to back up your arguements don't post. Even you should know the concept of backing up arguments which you are avoiding.
JayZ - | 4  
11 Aug 2007 /  #231
Interracial Dating - Canada - Poland

I am new to the site and it is great! I am surprised by the variety of topics on here..... I notice quite a bit about interracial dating, etc. and I think it is really interesting.

I am a Canadian guy (Polish background) and live in an area with alot of recent Polish immigrants. I notice alot of the recent Polish immigrants go out with people of different backgrounds. I notice that there are a great deal of Polish women in our area have black boyfriends, black kids, etc. My cousin is actually going out with a great Jamaican guy.

Personally, I think it is great and I don't object at all. Just wondering if this is a trend in Poland as well, or is something to do with Canada's multicultural experience.
Casimir 2 | 45  
11 Aug 2007 /  #232
I'm staying out of this one...
Murzynka - | 48  
5 Oct 2007 /  #233
Love has no colour. Some people never experience true love in their lifetime. When you find it, grab it with both hands. Don't let go of it. When you are lying in your bed at night and you know that you are at peace in the arms of the person you are with, that is all that matters. No amount of money can buy that. No amount of hate and dissaproval can break it.



urszula 1 | 253  
5 Oct 2007 /  #234
you know that you are at peace in the arms of the person you are with

That sounds beautiful, but...it has to work both ways. The other person has to feel the same way and you are truly lucky if you find that right person.
Willy - | 9  
5 Oct 2007 /  #235
Right, and I have no women who can give me that hunk and love...... I miss it.
Murzynka - | 48  
5 Oct 2007 /  #236
The other person has to feel the same way and you are truly lucky if you find that right person.

You're absolutely right. Real love is definitely a two way street.
Lemon - | 2  
5 Oct 2007 /  #237
I have to say that I don't find white guys attractive at all. I'm a white girl (russian/polish) and I find asian and black guys much sexier than white guys. Oh well, it's unusual i guess. The reason why I like asians is because i like metrosexuals. They don't find anything shameful about taking care of their looks which I like a lot <3
jnowiski 2 | 121  
5 Oct 2007 /  #238
Oh well, it's unusual i guess

the few russian girls that live in my town are into black guys...i'm guessing it might not be that unusual, lol.
Roy Batty - | 1  
6 Oct 2007 /  #239
There have been some fascinating insights expressed in this thread, I’d like to contribute my 2 cents (euros?).

Having dated women from many different cultural and racial backgrounds, I think there is a lot to be said about status. Our partner, to some degree affords us with status, whether you are aware of this consciously or not. I just completed my masters in IR at the LSE, run my own educational charity and have a flat in central London, I still find it interesting that the white female underclass actually look down on me wherever I go. Before I’m accused of sour-grapes, I’m not talking about dating-scenarios, I mean just ordinary conversational exchanges in which they are frequently shocked that I speak better English than them, don’t eat dog, and eat food with a knife and fork. I attribute this, somewhat cynically I admit (yet based on observation) to the fact that the white underclass in the UK, in spite of their ignorance, look down on people of colour no matter what their status or achievements. You could be a top international human rights lawyer, to many of them your just a wog. Please note the difference between the underclass and the honest working classes of Britain.

Why do Polish women or white women in general on council estates chose black partners? A lot of it has to do with having something exotic and different yes, but status wise, it’s a step up for a black guy on an estate to get a white girlfriend (no matter how ragged). For the woman, it shows her ability to exercise choice (or perhaps lack of choice given the demographics on estates?). In western society, it is generally not a step up in status for a white guy to take a non-white girlfriend. It suggests that he can’t find one from his own kind. I have often noticed in London, that some quite good looking athletic black guys are with in my view, rather plain looking white women. My point is status has a lot to do with balancing our choice of partner. Plenty successful black or non-white guys have stunning white girlfriends, many rich white guys will marry foreign models, actresses or just good looking foreign women. They are exercising greater choice based either on their status.

By now, quite a few of you should be outraged and indignant at what I’ve suggested, and the points I’ve made about status is by no means axiomatic, there are always other factors involved. Yet I can confidently say that around the world, status is afforded according to the following criteria: race, wealth, nationality, physical appearance. Generally speaking, anywhere in the world, a white guy has the highest status and is rightly or wrongly treated as such. This does NOT mean that white men do not get rough treatment now and then, but far less than non-whites. I lived in Japan (Kyoto) for 3 months, and I can confidently say that the “Gaijin” (white westerners) have markedly higher status than us “Gaikokujin” (non white foreigners). Moving onto the next criteria, if your rich (and demonstrably so) you obviously will attract attention from women, this is true all over the world. If you are not white, but are a national of a prosperous western nation, then you will have more status outside your nation in the eyes of women from non-western nations. Therefore an unemployed poorly educated white woman in the UK might not give you the time of day, compared to women outside the UK who might find you exotic, provided they are aware of your nationality, and that you were not born in the bush somewhere in Africa/Asia.

btw Matek1: inter-racial dating is here to stay; one day we will all look Brazilian. Broad hipped curly haired women and tanned muscular guys, anybody object??
sane_brisbane  
13 Oct 2007 /  #240
Polish interracial dating

the "nuclear reactor" topic. THIS TOPIC IS FORBIDDEN FOR THE SANE_BRISBANE.

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