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Illegal Polish girl wants me to marry her for citizenship


maro  
24 Apr 2007 /  #61
I am a man of 39 years of teacher education Egypt mathematical not get married, I married a woman of the romantic Honey, I have my family and my friends I am very good Adore romantic love any age (maro_mnwoary@yahoo)

I want to live romantic love
Gus  
24 Apr 2007 /  #62
Illegal Polish girl wants me to marry her for citizenship

She must be stupid or uder influence. Or she is just teasig you. World has changed. Sorry, buddy. That`s all what I can say.
sparrow 2 | 243  
24 Apr 2007 /  #63
Don't want to quote huge posts that take up place.. but it's always the same about those people that post "Girl X from country Y tore up my heart for reason Z"

People (generally men, let's be honest) are dissapointed & frustrated about their "local" women.. they've been heartbroken, they lost their trusts in women, they just think it all doesn't matter anymore.

Because of that they start thinking.. "well maybe a Thai girl would love me more.." & the same thing happens again with the Thai girl they start venting out their frustrations "Well I thought girls from <insert country here> were all loving, caring, altruistic, etc.. but they're not!! Are they all the same?"

I'm has nothing to do with someone being born in Poland or 20km to the West in Germany.. it's just life. It just wasn't meant to be & it's probably better you're not in a relationship with someone else that doesn't want to be.

As for the topic itself, don't want to sound cold & senseless.. call me opportunistic but to tell you the blunt truth.. for $7000 I wouldn't think twice about it..
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
25 Apr 2007 /  #64
If any of you do this, just be prepared to live a very sneaky life. Not my idea of fun

Mak

fanty_741  
29 Apr 2007 /  #65
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freebird  
1 May 2007 /  #66
Find another Polish girl

Just find anyone...Why does it have to be a Polish girl?

indeed and if polish girl wants to marry for citizenship....its one way of changing her circumstances at a better life (or why else would she want to 'marry' for citizenship?)

Are you willing to marry a Polish girl to give her a better chance in life without love?

People (generally men, let's be honest) are dissapointed & frustrated about their "local" women.. they've been heartbroken, they lost their trusts in women, they just think it all doesn't matter anymore

You generalize too much. I'm happily married since 20 yrs...
TheKruk 3 | 308  
5 May 2007 /  #67
Getting rich in the USA is harder than other countries.

Not true Europeans claim Americans are dumb especially about history and geography and this is generally true but a lot of these American idiots are rich.

But I am always uncomfortable about the marriage for citizenship thing especially in America where nothing is free, she would probably have to "do" something for his kindness.
FISZ 24 | 2,116  
5 May 2007 /  #68
Wasn't me who said that :)
David_18 66 | 969  
8 May 2007 /  #70
I am leaning towards not doing this. She lives in Chicago and says she would give me 7,000 or so for doing it. Worst part about it is that I dated her for 6 months and we talked actual marriage. She said she lost feelings. I just cant believe she had enough guts considering I still have fellings for her. I guess we could get divorced after 2 years. I might meet a girl that I want to marry in that time though. What does everyone think? Thanks!

You should help her out man dont be selfish when you know you can help a women , JUST DO IT.
i was thinking about the same thing cuz i really feeld bad about that she kind of dont have a live, she just sitting at home cant get a job etc etc.
singleguyinNJ  
16 Jun 2007 /  #71
I dont think you should get married to her unless she loves and you love her(which you do). Be careful.. now a days immigration is taking forever to even issue a green card because of the long lines at FBI deptt. for Name Check. It took my friend 3 years before he got his green card and then it will be another 3 years to apply for citizenship and then another Name check. .. Immigration sucks and could very much ruin your life if its not bonafide..
lilmissunshine - | 1  
18 Sep 2007 /  #72
my polish boyfriend wants to marry a polish girl for money. They both dont have feelings for eachother, for it is simply a buisness deal. I disagree with it completley, but he thinks its normal!
Shawn_H  
18 Sep 2007 /  #73
but he thinks its normal

I disagree.
Lucynda 4 | 70  
18 Sep 2007 /  #74
It's hard enough when you marry for love -- that often falls apart, but to marry cold-bloodedly? Don't do it! You could end up losing all your money when the cold-hearted b**** drags you into divorce court and sues for alimony.

I know a woman who deliberately got knocked-up by a rich guy 'cause she didn't know what to do with her life. She isn't happy, despite her big house. And he, poor naive soul, could do so much better than her. They only have one child, despite their millions.

Do everything for love! Life is hard anyway.
helper786 - | 1  
25 Sep 2007 /  #75
give that girl my ph # , i will talk to her...727-492-2183

polish girls r nice...its not good to disgrace anyone..

after all its a free country..live and let live
Lucynda 4 | 70  
25 Sep 2007 /  #76
give that girl my ph # , i will talk to her...727-492-2183

What? First of all, I don't talk to this girl because I think she's a twerp. And you are, too :)
tcnsix  
29 Sep 2007 /  #77
I would marry polish girl an or woman
polishgirltx  
29 Sep 2007 /  #78
you have to decide: a girl or a woman.... good luck :P
sledz 23 | 2,250  
29 Sep 2007 /  #79
I am leaning towards not doing this. She lives in Chicago and says she would give me 7,000 or so for doing it.

Are you crazy you can get at least 20 G`s here
krysia 23 | 3,058  
29 Sep 2007 /  #80
now a days immigration is taking forever to even issue a green card because of the long lines at FBI deptt

It all depends on the circumstance. When one comes on a fiance visa he will get a green card within 3 months after marriage. But if a person marries a US resident after staying here illegally, it will take 2 years or more, specially if that person overstayed the visa. The INS checks into everything.

A person I know overstayed his visa and after returning to Poland they issued him another one by mistake. So now this guy is back in the US illegally again, he does a fake marriage to a US citizen, the INS finds out about him overstaying the first visa, and wants him deported. Now his US wife has problems because they want to deport her with him. So they get this immigration lawyer and boy oh boy, what a mess when you try to help someone by illegal marriage.

So don't ever marry anyone for money. If you must, do it only because you love that person.
marek s - | 269  
30 Sep 2007 /  #81
its done here in chicago all the time. a person can get anywhere from 10-30k.
if a person could do it as a business arrangement and wont have a problem with it, why not then?
yes some people get messed with by the IRS, but alot dont.
randompal 7 | 306  
30 Sep 2007 /  #82
Ha ha now that the US dollar is worth less than the Canadian dollar this gold-diggin ho from Poland will probably split for Toronto on the next northbound train.

I think your ass just leaked into this topic. Another American hater. LOL funny. I haven't heard anyone say this well, ever

Well, I have heard people say just that, and not all of them are what you would call America haters. And these are people who have spent years living in the US, and they just simply had enough after 5 or 10, or in some cases even 20 years. Some people just don't want to become Americans and that's something you can't blame anyone for, and everyone can have an opinion as is their right. Time to admit though, America's just like any other place: it takes money to make money, other than that its all a crap shoot...
sledz 23 | 2,250  
30 Sep 2007 /  #83
10-30k

its true... thats the going rate here
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
30 Sep 2007 /  #84
the INS finds out about him overstaying the first visa, and wants him deported. Now his US wife has problems because they want to deport her with him.

What if an American woman wants to marry a Polish man for love but he overstayed his Visa? Will the INS still want to deport him and also her? Can they get married legally and stay in the U.S. if he overstayed the Visa?
polishgirltx  
30 Sep 2007 /  #85
no, the INS will give her the green card...and he will be ok too....
krysia 23 | 3,058  
30 Sep 2007 /  #86
Yes absolutely, and it's done very often. They just have to go for a talk with the INS where they ask personal questions about each other in seperate rooms to see if they really love each other.

The example I gave rarely happens, as this guy overstayed his visa the first time and leter they got back to him claiming he can't come back for 10 years.
polishgirltx  
30 Sep 2007 /  #87
other in seperate rooms

not always separate rooms but it happens...
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
30 Sep 2007 /  #88
would it take him longer to get the new Visa through marriage if he overstayed his original Visa?
krysia 23 | 3,058  
30 Sep 2007 /  #89
You're right. But the ones I know were in seperate rooms.

would it take him longer to get the new Visa through marriage if he overstayed his original Visa?

It takes about 1-2 years to get a green card after marrying a US citizen, whether he overstayed his visa or not.
polishgirltx  
30 Sep 2007 /  #90
i know one couple too :) but he was much older then her and the INS didn't really believe them it's love :)

It takes about 1-2 years to get a green card after marrying a US citizen, whether he overstayed his visa or not.

no, you get your 3 years green card after a few months... and after this time you can apply to get 10 years green card... in this time you can try to get your citizenship....

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