Help me: about polish girls

Hi, Pl. help me with confusion
I am an Indian guy, in academics in usa. I met a polish girl about 4 y ago, she is scientist. she came out of a bad relation before that. We have been in relation.Both were serious, I guess. But she used to do things that I told her I do not like. Like, kissing others, or sometime inviting her old guy friend to visit who stayed at her place. (It hurt me. ) What does it mean? is it common with polish girl that their guy friend visit and stay at their room and hang out, while she is in relation with other boy staying near by? does it has sexual meaning?

About 1.5 y she move back to poland for her job. we had seen only a few times a y. but she tells she is not in relation with other, but she lives in private apartment (although parents are in close by house). But she see her old guy friends?

What does it mean? why she does not stay with parents? does she she want to enjoy company with other guys secretly? is she cheating me? is it common with polish girl.

pl. help me with my confusion.
Thanks a lot.
sa

Geez, find another girl and problem solved.....

maybe ask her? what do u expect us to tell u? so many questions impossible to be answered by us!

What kind of relationship is it, if you can not ask her all the questions? Is this relationship one sided? Maybe you think you are in relationship, but you are just a long time friend...(with benefits) <puzzled>

I can only agree with the three above posts.

I dont think this is a Polish thing, I think its down to who she is....

my dear giko,believe the experience of a french guy ,u r a bit too much stress about that.if she is cheating u u can t do anything that won t break the relation .bbeing so untrusty to ur relation will probably even bring her to do that kind of thing...i think i wwould do that if my girlfriend was that jealous .it s something totally imbearable.

on the other hand ,if u trust her and try to understand or better know her old "guy friend "(ex bf?)maybe u ll be able to understand also their relation ...

andseriously htere is many reason not to live with her parents !
remenber love is trust first and authority is slavery...

be happy you got something at all, there isn't a single polish girl i know who'd go for an indian guy

Giko, It’s not a polish thing. I’m polish and I’m really surprise of you girlfriend attitude. You waste your time with her. If you think seriously about relation you should find a girl who care about your feeling and about u. I know it's hard. But I think this is not a life what u dream of.

I guess the load of Indian guys I see with Polish girls in Warsaw are a figment of my imagination?

Is this degradation happening?

depending how much you loved this chic, you obviously put in your time and effort, but than again whose to say that your side of the story is the only.

best move on bud, just my .02