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My Polish guy - loves me he loves me not


osiol 55 | 3,922  
20 Dec 2007 /  #31
I think it's his turn now.
OP leeann 1 | 29  
20 Dec 2007 /  #32
Yes thankyou. You are absoutley right. The ball is in his court now.
southern 75 | 7,096  
20 Dec 2007 /  #33
Do yo think I did enough to show my interest or do you think he is expecting me to make a direct move?

I think you expressed your interest the wrong way.What you did would maybe appeal to a woman but not to a man.
Curtis 3 | 73  
20 Dec 2007 /  #34
If I were you, I'd probably go to the shop as normal, do your business as you usaully would. But make sure he catches you looking at him. Not in a kind of, 'Oh Hello mate.' but more of a 'I'm watching you...' I'm sure you wouldn't, but don't come across as 'Get naked baby I really really need some sex for once...' That would defiantly scare him.

I wouldn't make anymore direct moves for the time being, just show that your not ignoring him. Wait a little, see if he hits the ball back.
OP leeann 1 | 29  
21 Dec 2007 /  #35
I think you expressed your interest the wrong way

Southern, if you think my approach was wrong then can u tell me what I should have done instead? Bear in mind that I'm nervous when I see him and therefore could not just simply say "czesc Jakob, lubie cie, mogecie pocalowac? pragnesie z toba kochac or jestes seksowna.

For those who dont speak or understand Polish it says in English "Hello Jakob, I like you, can I kiss you, I want to make love to you. You are sexy.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
21 Dec 2007 /  #36
Hello Jakob, I like you, can I kiss you, I want to make love to you. You are sexy.

nah i wouldnt say that, he'll just think you're a bit of a floosey, I would just go with the same approach you would use with any other man, Polish men are really not that different.
OP leeann 1 | 29  
21 Dec 2007 /  #37
Okay guys. I am going to the shop tomorrow and I will let u know how it goes. Any advice for me.
PinkJewel  
21 Dec 2007 /  #38
Any advice for me.

Yes, I wouldn't say this...

"Hello Jakob, I like you, can I kiss you, I want to make love to you. You are sexy.

...in English or Polish because it is likely to come across the wrong way.
Jambo 2 | 106  
21 Dec 2007 /  #39
I wish you luck. But if he has not called you by now or made any other move then I think it is simply he does not want to. I rarely give a woman I do not know my telephone number but where I have and she does not call ot text I know she is not interested. You could just ask him right out for a date then you will know for sure.
OP leeann 1 | 29  
21 Dec 2007 /  #40
Cheers mate. I guess you right but tomorrow is my only way to find out for sure.
Lucynda 4 | 70  
21 Dec 2007 /  #41
Leann,

Just ignore these guys. They are pulling your leg.

If that's your photo in the profile, you are a very pretty girl and shouldn't have much problem in hooking a nice Polish guy.

Just remember they are conservative, yet fun. What you have to do is flirt with this guy. Smile, laugh, ask him light-hearted questions, and watch to see if his eyes light up, he loosens up a bit. Those are your signs. See if you can make some good conversation with him, as if you were already dating. After all, once you catch the guy, then you have to enjoy him. See if you can catch him checking out your boobs or legs. Then you know....

After this "foreplay", wait till he asks you out. If he's really shy, you could just ask him directly if he likes you, that you find him attractive, and would like to have a coffee with him or a lunch date.
OP leeann 1 | 29  
22 Dec 2007 /  #42
Just remember they are conservative, yet fun. What you have to do is flirt with this guy. Smile, laugh, ask him light-hearted questions, and watch to see if his eyes light up, he loosens up a bit. Those are your signs. See if you can make some good conversation with him, as if you were already dating. After all, once you catch the guy, then you have to enjoy him. See if you can catch him checking out your boobs or legs. Then you know....

Wow what fantastic advice. Thankyou lucynda. Women are better at giving good advice than men anyway. He was checking me out last Saturday when I went to see him and he had hungry eyes, like he wanted to eat me alive. I'm going in to see him around five today so I will update you all. Yes that is me in the photo and I may be pretty but I'm a shy girl. My confidence does not match my looks and that is my problem. I think he likes me but I'm not too sure. The way he looked at me last week was the look of sex.
Curtis 3 | 73  
22 Dec 2007 /  #43
Yes that is me in the photo

No wonder he's shitting himself..
Wyspianska  
22 Dec 2007 /  #44
actually if he was interested in you, he already should call. Its not about her look Curtis. Well, okay, there are some dumb boys and for them that's a priority. But generally there are many different things which make a girl sexy. For example: being self confident. All respect leeaann but fact you are wondering about one random guy means you are not self confident at all. You are just like blablabla for him. Not worth to remember. Change it, suprise or (even better) shock him. Make something unpredictable, don't be too shy please and say directly what you expect. (instead of : "If you want to call me there is my number" say: "Hey, youre lucky today. Gotta give you my number. Dont forget to call or i will do so! give me yours then")

edit

Yes thankyou. You are absoutley right. The ball is in his court now.

and wtf is even that. omg sounds like my RIP Grandma
marek s - | 269  
22 Dec 2007 /  #45
Well, okay, there are some dumb boys and for them that's a priority.

looks are the first things that attract people. only people who would call them boys dumb is a bitter girl because maybe she lacks in the looks dept.
southern 75 | 7,096  
22 Dec 2007 /  #46
looks are the first things that attract people.

That is why Wyspi has two bodyguards.
Wyspianska  
22 Dec 2007 /  #47
and i didnt say that look isn't important. Of course it is! Just would never be with boy whos ONLY goodlooking and i have no reason to talk with.

BTW thats why i miss my ex sometimes... (one of the bodyguards hehe)
southern 75 | 7,096  
22 Dec 2007 /  #48
(one of the bodyguards hehe)

What was the other bodyguard's mission?
Wyspianska  
22 Dec 2007 /  #49
keep an eye on US
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
22 Dec 2007 /  #50
We have spoken on a few occasions and I decided to put my number in a Christmas card which I gave to him. Next to my number I asked him to call to wish me a merry Christmas.

I think you made it clear to him that you're interested. Maybe he lost your card. Go back and see what he does. If he doesn't say anything about it, then you'll have your answer. If he said you were pretty, maybe he has a girlfriend or is gay.
southern 75 | 7,096  
22 Dec 2007 /  #51
keep an eye on US

When you visit me,he will be present?
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
22 Dec 2007 /  #52
In my opinion she was just to typical. Didn't make him interested enough.

She gave him her number and told him to call.
Wyspianska  
22 Dec 2007 /  #53
yeah, so original and bright
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
22 Dec 2007 /  #54
no. more like forward, obvious.
Wyspianska  
22 Dec 2007 /  #55
ok and that's why he didn't call. Keep thinking like this anyway. More boys for me.
OP leeann 1 | 29  
22 Dec 2007 /  #56
No wonder he's shitting himself..

What does this mean? Well guys I went into the shop today and I need more advice. I will reveal all tomorrow. I am now going out to drink with guess who............
_Sofi_  
22 Dec 2007 /  #57
I am now going out to drink with guess who............

:D Sounds like good news..! Have fun ;)
Curtis 3 | 73  
22 Dec 2007 /  #58
What does this mean?

If someone as beautiful as you came up to me asking me to call them, I'd probably be doing the same as your guy is.
OP leeann 1 | 29  
22 Dec 2007 /  #59
Oh you are so sweet Curtis. Do you think he was too nervous to call me? Anyway dont matter now, we going out. Will tell you every detail tomorrow.
Curtis 3 | 73  
22 Dec 2007 /  #60
Look forward to hearing how it goes, he's obviously interested.

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