Polish girls lying

This is an insulting term.You mean I attract all the heavy lying?Or I am exposed to that due to my naivety?

i am really so......

Explain this Phenomenon defence mechanism. What do you mean? The closest I have ever come to asking out polish women was when I sent my wedding invitations to my sisters in law. One week before the wedding they still hadn’t RSVP ed. So I rang them to find out If they were coming or not they said they were not coming as I hadn’t invited their uncle to the wedding ( I had never met the uncle). My response was ok that’s fine the wedding was limited to 60 guests and under no circumstances am I inviting the uncle. So I told them I will give their places in wedding bus and party to some friends I had really wanted at the wedding any way.

On the day of the wedding we had over 20 phone calls to our mobiles from the sisters, while waiting to go into the church a call came in form an Irish land line I thought it was something to with the wedding so I answered it and it turned out to be the uncle I never met, he was on the phone asking where the wedding bus was that he and the sisters were ready and waiting to be collected. I just told him it was too late for them to decide at 12pm on the day of the wedding that they wanted to come there was nothing I could do for them now...................It must of been very expensive for the sisters to fly in the uncle to Ireland at such short notice especially since I got married on new year’s eve.

So southern can this be classified as a polish girls defence mechanism, is it like if men ask a polish woman out to dinner and she says no but really she wants to go to dinner with the man. The polish woman is waiting for the man to ask her 3 or 4 times. Unless there is a payoff for them they will only say yes the first time if a man says something like I will buy you a pair of expensive shoes then we will go to dinner? Now I am sure a polish woman will not say no to that.

So were my sisters in law wanting me to prove to them that I really wanted them at my wedding and the real cost of me having them there would be to invite there favourite uncle. (Expensive shoes)

Yes,you got it.Your mere presence is not enough for them.They want sth more.(usually bare money since they think they know better how to spend them).

Contrary to that ukr girls usually want present to show that you care about them(not that they do not like money but many times find it offensive,they prefer present).

forgive me I am the niave one when it comes to women like this, I did not mean to be insulting. It is just from your postings you come accros to me as an experinced man in the feild of polish women.


I don't want to get burned any more by the polish princess.

I know a polish girl she had sex with a man so he would buy her a 6 pack of beer in dublin at a party I was at.

It appears they were scheming and telling the uncle something else the whole time. Typical, heres an example - would you like to go shopping today? answer, no. But they do really its just that youre not asking in the right way. So you dont take them shopping and later youre in the dog house, because they wanted to go really.

Its the same with food, would you like a dinner? answer no. But as soon as you sit down with a meal they decide they wanted some after all. So, you either give them some of yours or sit and scoff the lot - thus ending in the dog house again. If the situation is reversed its another story all together. I always make extra just to be on the safe side.

I always say to her just tell me what you want straight away, no bloody riddles and silly tests.

Many women have these strange mannerisms. I always remember Doc from the Spielberg classic - Back to the Future.

Doc "When i get back to 1985 im going to destroy the time machine and concentrate on my next project"

Marty "whats that Doc"

Doc "WOMEN"

a saying about lie.

"o yalan, bu yalan, gel birde sen oyalan."

means

"this a lie, that a lie, you too, come to the life and mess/play around."


at least, she had 6 pack of beer. many getting nothing in return and even no happiness after sex.

We men get burnt.


I wouldn't mind that if she did not mention or revealed somehow or had the tact not to let sth like that be obvious(like czech girls do who are quite tactful).

I don't think polish girls fall for a pack of beer unless there is hope for future investment.
Of course here we talk about one category of girls.Because there is also another category of polish girls who ask for nothing(and when I write nothing I mean nothing) until they become crazy about marriage.

So the two perspectives are either you marry a decent girl or you spend on gold diggers.Marriage or money these are the possibilities for polish girls.(so you can be either groom or sugar daddy.Of course I would prefer to be simply a feker but this possibility is largely uknown in this culture).

You should try this, see if it works; Don't ask her if she would like to shop today, but instead just say that you would like to go shopping with her today.


Just try to show some initiative sometimes? Surprise her, and don't ask her what she wants all the time. As weird as this may sound to you, they actually want you to take the lead sometimes..

;)

Yes,grab her from the hand and say ''let's go shopping.''In my opinion the favourite activities of polish girls are staying in the house,eating and dancing.So requests like ''would you like to stay at home'',would you like to eat,would you like to go to disco seldom fail.(you ask depending on the girl of course).

this fits me. i'll stay here then.

btw, people, women never say lie. really. they are forced to say lie.

I really have never come across game playing women in my life until I met my polish mother in law and sisters in law. Whenever I have reason to meet with my sisters in law I end up really confused as if I just got off a mental merry go round. I really believe that women like this make their life much more difficult than it has to be. Is life not easier if you are open direct and honest?


I hear you, do you think that the polish women will grow out of this is it just a phase.


Well I am sorry to all the men that have been burned. It is not right.


yep she even offerd me one of her cans.

If I wrote what polish women have written to me,your hair would come out of its place.It is incredible.Anyway I forgive them as slavic,unstable etc but the humiliation feeling is sometimes so strong that you really want to exceed your arm and...It is incredible humiliation like having to swallow one snake and two elephants.

well your a very forgiving man.

How does a culture surive when this is how the women act, they also teach their children that it is ok to carry on like this. it carrys on form generation to generation. My mother in law is ten times worse than her daughters,

It is written on their genes.Slavic girls were like that 200 years ago and 200 years after they will be still like that.You cannot change that,you take it for granted.

what? they still raws? while all being cooked on this earth like an orange with a thin shell and fire inside.

I have read descriptions of polish women in the 19th century and they were exactly the same.So you take it or you leave it.

Thanks for setting me straight. I realise now that I must just accpect my in laws game playing ways even if deep down in my bones I believe it is so wrong and confusing, hurtfull , and a waste of time. The only thing I have to figure out is how to live alongside th polish princess, and still be true to my beliefs which is to be open honest and direct.

Or you can be slavicized and become a princess yourself.

but, there was a big finger between 1945-1989 pointing the things. i think you are wrong. this must have shaken their minds a little, making their life views broader than their raw-er western fellow kinds. i for one more hopeful about the polish women than them. give them a year, they'll be the firsts who'll learn and spread the true love.

Thats what my in laws want to do to me they want me to be like them dress like them an go shopping and be little girlie girls. It is like trying to sick a a square peg into a round hole .

Not a chance in hell of me becoming a princes. This is the problem I hate the Bull S#*t.

king is naked. (when will you say this in england?)

Woman is about DECEPTION.

She paints her face...
She pads her clothes...
She says no when she means yes....
She talks about finding a righteous man when she really wants a 'security object'.
She claims she weighs 10 pounds less than she really does....
She blames men for everything while contributing nothing but criticism....
She acts coquettish when it suits her plans.....
She feigns interest in male things she is not interested in......

(I'd better stop here......)

"Eight out of ten women (83%) admit to telling "big, life-changing lies", with 13% saying they do so frequently."

"An alarming 31% of all women say they would not tell a future partner if they had a sexual disease. This rises for 65% for single women."

Well, this shouldn't be a surprise to anyone.

Next headline: "Fish discovered in the Pacific Ocean".

Maybe slavic women as morally and sentimentally weak are more feminine in all aspects.

dont let her we know these.
she changes tactics then if she knows we know.

Girls or boys can lie anytime anyplace.... provided the category of the lie and the environment in which it is said is good or bad....determines the effects of the lie.

However, I really think that lying is one of the worse things there can be.

lol - Now that was funny (finally)

a feminist doesn't lie. she defence her own right like a man and this is a correct behaviour.

A feminist is a human. All humans lie from time to time.

How can we be sure you are telling the truth? ;p