wah wah wah, here's the defender of all righteousness! the original poster never appeared again so we're just having a discussion - as you do on a forum - and it is related to this subject. i expressed my views, and i see you're expressing yours and even ganging up on one of the new posters just because you don't agree with her. nice job!
Your so sexy when your b*tchy :) i love it, sometimes i want to write stuff just to see you wind up :)
As for offending and attacking new posters, i don't think so, a lot of the sentences etc etc had smileys on them or were general points and questions, nothing to do with being offensive.
It seems your aloud to slag people of left, right and chelsea but when its me, different rules.............. double standards ay, lol.
BUT sometimes it's best to come clean about the mistrust and ask for proof. and if you're suspicious because your other half all of the sudden doesn't let go of their phone or it's on silent or off at all times when that wasn't the case before, there is clearly something going on.
i agreed with that above, you won't get a disagreement on that from me, there is nothing wrong with asking for honesty honestly, hahaha.
if you are doing nothing wrong and your partner still doesn't believe you then you need to sit them down and talk to them, tell them how much you care and that you would never betray them but that they need to trust you.
For me its not if somebody is up to something, its the fact that they feel the need to check things, its just not right if you ask me and there is simply no reason to do it.
unfortunately if your partner doesn't trust you with your phone, emails etc. it may signal that they are fooling around themselves!
that is a good point, sometimes the finger pointer is hiding something themselves, call it misdirection if you like :)
P.S.
just to confirm that i love the ****** ******** in you :P