Foreigners in relationships with Poles - do your in-laws accept you?

lol.

no lessons in 'being' polish. you don't need to learn polish most of us can speak english :)

and how many babies do you want.......that question is to both of you <smile>


i thought you were going ?

I'm staying for a bit /

thanks amathyst. I've taken stuff for it and am in bed with my laptop.........can't think too deeply though.....and have my head on a pillow.....:(

Just the 3, but will you serrogate for me, since I dont want to lose my figure :)

In one word 'No' but you could always advertise on Polish Forums for a Polish surrogate.....anyway Victoria Beckhams had three and she is size zero !

Im an Aquarius.


Now thats not very friendly, just think my kids would be full Polish that way...(I dont like the idea of having my eggs taken either)


Yeah, like im going to live on ice for the rest of my life...


No, I was saying I had been for a long soak :)

Migrains are killers, I used to suffer a lot, I used to have them every single Friday when I was at school, just after Sister Philaminia's cookery class she was a right cow and used to stress me out...but I dont get them that often, I have ended up in hospital twice, first time for 5 days - but that was in my late teens

first polish lesson......you are more than happy to have your own babies for your polish husband. That's what polish women do !! They don't worry about their figures whilst having babies and they eat pierogi <they're fattening you know>

second polish lesson....learn how to make pierogi and bigos to keep him happy :)

just need OR's star sign to see who he is compatible with :)

I am English born but my Mum is Black and Asian (Indian) and my dad is Asian (Indian), but from South America. The country they are from is also in the West Indies called Guyana. My boyfriend is Polish. His brother is rascist and was actually deported from the uk for his views after racially abusing a London Underground employee. He has no respect for black and asians at all and Im glad he was arrested. He was allowed back. I have met Gregs father who was polite and even said that I was very nice, but who said why cant you get a white girl. I was supposed to go to Poland, but his mum was worried about what the neighbours and guests at the wedding we were supposed to attend would say about me being black, so we didn't go. I didnt want to anyway. The fact I am not Catholic doesn't help as his mum is very religous although his father isnt at all. So no, they have not accepted me. Greg thinks if we had a baby, which he really wants, that his mum and dad would be really happy as they have no grandchildren and it doesnt look like they are getting any soon from the other siblings.

When he first met me and he returned to Poland for another wedding, his mum asked him if he was with anyone and he told her about me. She was shocked, but happy and was smiiling and laughing. Greg thinks his brother has said things to his mother to scare her.

My mother has not accepted Greg and is very rude. She doesnt even say his name. I think that is to do with jealousy on her part, because he loves me so much. She said that 'Eastern Europeans are riddled with desease and that I dont know where he has been so he might have TB (Tubercolosis)' Yes I hate my mother for saying that. We have an awful relationship anyway, so it is no loss to me that I dont repsect her ignorance. She is a nasty *****.

Despite all of this I am so happy and in Love.