now, months down the line, he says i call him too much, want to see him too much, and that he cant breathe, i mean, i love the damn guy, i just want to care for him and be with him all the time, hes my man, but he doesnt show me that side he had anymore, was it real?
Are you stunning or average? Thats the question here if not do you think he can and has done any better? Sounds to me like the guy thinks nothing but kriptonite can take him down and is in need of a reality check.
Ignore him for a bit act like a real *****, assess the feedback and act accordingly. You have no choice.