I was watching a programme and yes it looked stunning. Particulary liked vlad draculas hill top castles
I haven't been to Vlad Castle, although I did hear that there are several (or actually a few) of castles that the owners claim to had been Vlads home. :)
Romanian mountains are beautiful, the food is awesome and people are really nice.(don't confuse Romanian gypsies with Romanians though. Some people do it, but there are definitely not the same bunch.).
Unfortunately you might have to find some Romanian forum as I really don't have a clue about the gay scene there. Good luck though. :)