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Posts by Debianco  

Joined: 30 Aug 2007 / Female ♀
Last Post: 11 Jun 2008
Threads: Total: 19 / In This Archive: 18
Posts: Total: 111 / In This Archive: 101
From: newcastle
Speaks Polish?: a little
Interests: music drama, poland

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Debianco   
24 Oct 2007
Love / Advice from the guys? English met a Polish guy. [40]

IF YOU WANA CALL CALL. IF HE THINKS THAT IS CHASING THATS HIS PROBLEM. IF HE CARES AND LIKES YOU HE WILL UNDERSTAND. UNTIL HE TELLS YOU OTHERWISE THINK POSITIVELY. WHY CANT MEN BE HONEST NO NEED FOR IGNORANCE. THE SILENT TREATMENT IS CHILDISH AND RUDE
Debianco   
22 Oct 2007
Life / Are Poles happy with their sex lives? [33]

is talking about sex taboo in poland. if you are a single girl in poland and have casual sex is it frowned upon. is marriage on the decrease in poland, and living together more acceptable. my point is if you dont want the committmant of marriage or a serious relationship-than casual sex maybe in place by the 30 something single how is this viewed-my polish boyfriend says many open minded people accept this but it is secretative-comments please
Debianco   
22 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

love is a powerful feeling and when you feel that the words i lovbe you come naturally. if you have to think about it too much. it probably isnt love. some people are in more control than others and may not say it too often
Debianco   
16 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

theres love and theres being in love-you know when your in love

so whats the difference between i love you and i am in love with you
Debianco   
16 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

many guys are scared of saying i love you because they know it means more committment so they avoid saying it-or only say it when they really mean it. so whats the point in saying it if you dont mean it?
Debianco   
16 Oct 2007
Life / Watches - a no-no in Poland? [34]

getting back to the scarf-why is it a symbol to make the relationship stronger?
Debianco   
16 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

why is it easier for a man to tell a girl he loves them when he doesnt why shut them up-i dont understand this-its cruel its giving false hope surely i am not sure is moer honest

so when a polish guy says i love you he really means it?
Debianco   
16 Oct 2007
Love / i love you -why say it if you dont mean it [56]

now this is interesting. i cant say rthe words 1 love you if i dont mean it. now i know some poeple do say it to get one thing-but i am not talking about that situation. i am talking about it in a serious context would you say i love you to someone knowing they believed you when you didnt mean it. why would anyone do that-?
Debianco   
16 Oct 2007
Travel / Gdynia info / Hotels to stay [17]

Topic attached on merging:
what to to where to stay in gdynia

where to stay and what to do in gdynia is it safe are taxis good what about hiring a car?

please information on gdynia
Debianco   
15 Oct 2007
Travel / Gdynia info / Hotels to stay [17]

Topic attached on merging:
advice on visiting gdynia

i hope to visit gdynia soon please advice on where to stay, hotels,nightlife, safety (women on their own) are taking taxis safe-would be hiring a car a good idea-will be visiting lots of people in surounding countryside
Debianco   
15 Oct 2007
Life / I'm a Polish immigrant. And I'm not going back to Poland. [40]

the world is a big place which so much opportunity so much more movement-let people be free to choose where they work and live for whatever their reason-some will love poland and return some will prefer there choosen country-as long as you are happy does it matter what anyone else thinks-its normally jealousy that causes negative comments. and of coures there will always be rich poor and inbetween-thats life
Debianco   
15 Oct 2007
Life / Watches - a no-no in Poland? [34]

please explain the giving of a scarf. i gave my polsih boyfriend a scarf of mine fragranced with my perfume

i didnt know there was a significance in giving the scarf
Debianco   
15 Oct 2007
Law / Claiming Polish citizenship via my parents or my sister? [3]

my father was polish as far as i know i can claim polsih citizenship-my mother english. i remember because of when they were married and when we first went to poland we were told his children are polish citizens
Debianco   
9 Oct 2007
Genealogy / Surname Wyroclawski [6]

probably spelt my auntys name wrong! parole is the surname of some of my cousins. my 3rd cousin came over to england to my dads funeral a few years ago. just want to re-establish contact with this side of my family any help please

I really cant believe no-one on here who is in Poland does not have any information or knowledge of my surname or the name parol/e-it is so important to me. i know WYROCLAWSKI- is an unusual name but it does exist. i have seen my polish grandparents grave in Chelmno and have a photo to prove it!
Debianco   
9 Oct 2007
Genealogy / Surname Wyroclawski [6]

my fathers birth certificate was lost but i have his holy communion certificate and there is definitely a y in it
Debianco   
9 Oct 2007
Genealogy / Surname Wyroclawski [6]

i have visited some of my family in Poland several years ago. lost touch after my fathers death. i have an aunt in Chelmno and cousins in Poznan Bydgoszcz and Gdansk. i am to visit soon and i would like to meet as many of my polish relatives as possible. my dad was the younger brother of four sisters. his sisters Leokadia, Venezwula, Stefania, and Felicia all born in Chelmno.
Debianco   
2 Oct 2007
Love / Dating age difference - my 16 yo is dating a 26 yo Polish guy [102]

age doesnt matter where true love is concerned-so if it is true love he will repect her-by allowing her to grow up hang out with people her own age and then maybe in a couple of years she will be a little more wise as to what love is.
Debianco   
2 Oct 2007
Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]

who does this guy respect more? he put you second over his" sister"-he will always put you second-when his sister has a boyfriend will he accept her brother sleeping with her? dont think so. infact this guy respects niether you or his "sister" sounds like a control freak-wondering repect yourself!!!!
Debianco   
30 Sep 2007
Love / The Polish girl i love has gone back to Poland . [65]

my guy is back in poland now. its not easy to communicate in this long distance way. he hopes to be back in england within the next month-but not knowing excatly when causes anxiety. you can only say so much in a phone call and text-you end up over texting and repeating yourself. i dont think distance relationships fair well in the long run
Debianco   
12 Sep 2007
Love / WHY DO POLISH WIVES WHO ARE AWAY NOT VISIT THEIR HUSBANDS? [75]

yes thatwould be nice- but i have a complicated marital situation-three kids divorce not settled- he wont agree- eventhough he left-if i was in poland he would have to settle-what i am saying is i have a complex situation as well also you meets omeone-you like each other-in your 30'sand 40's most peolpe have situations- its life you gota understand each others perspective
Debianco   
12 Sep 2007
Love / WHY DO POLISH WIVES WHO ARE AWAY NOT VISIT THEIR HUSBANDS? [75]

guilty party because he left her.committed adultery for example or just didnt want to bewith her.what if the wife left the husband whatif she did something wrong -but doesntwork-maybe has a child whats the situation then?
Debianco   
7 Sep 2007
Love / Sending flowers to my Polish boyfriend [73]

i sent them but he loved them. if he loves you he will get the right message. he may act differently in front of his friends-but really its what you and he think that matters.
Debianco   
6 Sep 2007
Love / WHY DO POLISH WIVES WHO ARE AWAY NOT VISIT THEIR HUSBANDS? [75]

ronek please dont feel bad i did invite your opinion and maybe you are right and some straight talk is required its just that he is in spain and i think it is better to ask him these questions face to face-not over the phone or in a text-so maybe i am just tring to avoid this.
Debianco   
6 Sep 2007
Love / Sending flowers to my Polish boyfriend [73]

folks i did send them . no i have only done this once before it is a very specail act for me. i understand it normally is the man and i know poland is more traditional-i do understand what his maates may have thought and i know it could have been embarassing for him- i followed it up with a phone call and he did receive them as intended and i said i hope his mates didnt give him a hard time and i did say i tried to get some beer delieved but wasnt easy. he was ok with it all and said thank-you
Debianco   
6 Sep 2007
Love / WHY DO POLISH WIVES WHO ARE AWAY NOT VISIT THEIR HUSBANDS? [75]

he is a happy fun loving freedom seeking person-qualities i like in him- and our relationship has been like this but its now got to the stage that its becoming serious or could potentially -dont want to force anything-but i know he is struggling with something-i just want the truth

thanks for the translation ronek- yeah i know what you mean a bit poetic -but why would it confuse? have you gor any suggestions of maybe waht i should write then? i do appreciate your opininion-i think we are on the same wavelenght-please take that as a compliment!