Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Not true as far as foreigners are concerned. Lots of Polish girls, especially in touristy cities like Krakow, know very well why many foreign guys come to Poland and will be keen to show you that they are not 'typical, easy Polish girls'. Some of them are really paranoid about this. Also, in recent years, many horny Italian guys (loveable guys that they are) have given Mediterranean guys a bad reputation. Girls are still friendly to foreigners, but not as much as in the past.

So, what can you do? Be humble, humble, humble. Also be playful and make them laugh, but don't come across as too horny, don't offer to buy them a drink and don't behave like a 'playboy' - you will send out the wrong signals. Don't talk about sex, unless she is a particular type of girl. And show some interest in the girl - many foreign guys just talk about themselves all the time, and the girls assume that they only want to fk them (which is true anyway, but I think girls like to have the illusion that there could be something more).

The 'technique' I like the most is just to be honest but in a funny way. For example, if you stop a girl on the street, ask her for directions, and then confess that you didn't need any help - you just wanted to stop and talk to her because you thought she was hot. Or just say something playful like ask a girl in at a club bar if she can buy you a drink because you heard Polish girls are very hospitable. Whatever is appropriate in the moment.

Daytime game is usually more reliable because there is no competition from other guys or distractions like loud music, their b*tch friends trying to pull them away from you, no "I must look for my friends" excuses, etc. However, you need to be feeling confident to approach them in the day.

Of course, Polish girls' behaviour is not always so predictable and there are exceptions, drunk sluts, etc.... but stay away from the sexy-looking girls who like to talk to big body-builder type guys with shaved heads - you're not their type ;)

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]

Oh, and very often if a girl does tell you that she isn't an 'easy Polish girl', it usually means that she is :) - you just have to work her the right way.

Personally, though, I find it a bit offputting when they say that.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


I think I would avoid them first :)


Why? because I tell it like it is without the politically-correct bullsh*t? I believe the poster wanted real advice on picking up girls in Poland.

Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]


Ha ha ha...very provocative

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Ha ha..this whole post is actually more insulting to Polish women than anything I or anyone else here could ever come up with :) Nice work. Anyway, I wasn't writing for you dear. What are you doing on this thread anyway? And if you are going to be here, at least stick to the topic and contribute something useful.

By the way, I have no English blood, I don't really identify with being English and I've been living in Poland before the EU expansion, so all your comments were a waste of effort.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Do you realise the reputation of English girls in Mediterranean countries? Far, far worse than Polish girls'. In Greece, for example, when guys compare their successes with women, they often don't count the English girls. :)

In fact, I know a Portugese guy who moved to the UK partly because of the reputation of English girls in Portugal. Obviously, he was a little disappointed to find them less promiscuous in the UK...but the point is that you English girls are not really in any position to slag off Polish girls for being easy. And many young Greeks, Italians, Spanish, Portugese have lost their virginity to English holiday tarts.

Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]


Like it or not, people who come from a certain cultural background do share particular characteristics. If you are intelligent, you know that it's just a generalisation and doesn't apply to everyone. If you make comments such as 'people are different everywhere'/'you can't generalise', etc. that's just politically-correct tosh.

Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]


Where do you think the reputation comes from then? As Luke says, during the transition period (the so-called 'golden times' for ex-pats in E.Europe), Polish girls were infatuated with foreign men and 'gave it up' a little too easily.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]

No, no, no. Why do some nationalities have a worse reputation than others? Is it totally random? How can it be?

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I wasn't talking about how quickly they went to bed. I meant that it was very easy for almost any foreign guy to attract and sleep with a girl at that time.

Right or wrong, the reputation is what it is. You can't change that. All you can do is just not take it seriously. Personally I don't really think about it till a girl reveals to me her complexes, saying stuff like 'I'm not easy'/'don't think I'm easy', etc. But if a girl is confident in herself, unaffected by what other people think of her nationality etc, then I don't think about her as 'a Polish girl' and the 'negativity' that goes with it.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]

As I wrote earlier, English girls seem to have the worst reputation in Mediterranean countries, as far as being promiscuous is concerned. I found the stories a little hard to believe at first since I was brought up in England, and I tend to avoid the southern tourist resorts in the summer. By comparison, Polish girls are pretty tame.

I've also heard that Germans and Swedes are pretty bad when on holiday. At home, it's a different story.

Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]


I realise that I can never understand. But I have met Polish girls who are either unaware of it or unaffected by it. Of course, they live in Poland, so I guess it's different for Polish girls living abroad.

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Hmm....here is an extract from one of your posts in another thread:

'What you are saying sounds just like what I have head 100 of times from Polish girls. And yet each of them failed to prove Alex point wrong: that in many ways THEY ARE "all the same".'

Does that not contradict everything you have written here? LOL

Love / Polish Girls Reputation [231]


I don't know the Polish scene outside Poland very well. I can only comment on the opinions of foreigners in Poland. But I can tell you it has changed over the past 8 years. A lot of tourists from UK and other places who have been coming here expecting some 'action' have been returning home disappointed.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Thanks for posting that. Though it's difficult to take seriously with Italy appearing higher than Poland, which is strange considering almost every Italian male in Poland complains about how tough it is to score in Italy and much better it is in Poland.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Believe me, I've seen more mis-matched couples involving a Polish girl than you have, and it disturbs me more than it does you, I'm sure. What you are saying does, on the contrary, imply that you think they are easy, if even a loser/unattractive guy can seduce them. Which is fine if that's what you think, but just come out and say it instead of contradicting yourself.

I'm not going to defend Polish girls in this area (that would also contradict my earlier posts), but I will say that English girls don't always have the greatest taste in men either. I've seen 'pretty' (by UK standards) English girls in England with some really boring English guys with zero sense of humour who would have a hard time scoring a decent girl here in Krakow. Overall, though, you tend to pinch above your weight yourselves.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


In Poland, they generally aren't very concerned with looks so anything is possible.
I don't know what their taste is like in the UK.


I understand what having a partner is about. You comment is irrelevant. My post was meant to put Shelley's comments on taste into perspective.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Well, I wasn't talking about Jean Claude Van Dam. And that's just a group of Polish girls from the poorer districts - the sort-of equivalent of council estate girls in England. So let's leave them alone.

Anyway, wtf happened to this thread? I thought there was going to be some sharing of 'techniques'. Looks like the Spanish guy who started the thread is too busy trying to score to make a re-appearance. LOL

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Funnily enough, I do know a friend of a girl who sh@gged Mr. V-Damme himself when he was staying at a hotel in Krakow several years ago. So, bad example I guess :)


I wish I didn't agree with you on this point....but I do.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Your friend's sister sounds like a gold-digging slut, her husband sounds like a fool. If all the stunning English girls are after money, then thank God there are places like Poland.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Prefer, yes. But it's not exclusive reason, as seems to be the case with Shelley's friend's sister.

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This is where I stopped reading your post. What the hell is a devoted Christian? You mean she is someone who lies, cheats, deceives etc. then goes to confession to make it all allright,...at the same time naively believing in the 'virgin Mary' and the 'invisible man in the sky' (credit: LukeXX)...the only thing she fears is thinking for herself.

It's the 21st century for heaven sake! Get over this nonsense!

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Isn't the word 'abuse' a bit strong? I'd just call it bad attitude/personality. Abuse implies you act like a p*ssy and let the woman continue to get away with it instead of either pulling her in line or getting rid of her for good. Unless, of course, such behaviour turns you on ;)

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Either she's young, naive and doesn't really know what she wants, or if she is a bit more mature it's an excuse. A mate of mine's Polish fiance broke it off with him because of parental pressure (in this case it was because his background was from the Middle East part of the world, even though he wasn't Muslim). In the end he persisted and they got back together, married, had a kid, etc. In that case, it really was a question of family pressure. It your case, it might not be, since she hasn't even told her family yet.

Love / Techniques for meeting Polish girls [68]


Ha, ha, ha. Yes, I've seen that work, man. Here's a tip with the village-type girls: begin every sentence with "You like...?", "I like...", "I don't like..." and "I agree"/"I don't agree". Tried it once for a joke. You might be surprised by the positive reactions. Personally though, I'm rather bored with simple girls, and I'm bored with being boring.

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And don't ever get into discussions on 'serious' topics, such as religion, politics, etc or reveal any strong opinions you may have on anything...I've made that mistake many times...and it rarely got me anywhere. The more wise and intelligent you appear to be, the less chance you have with the girl.

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I think it has to do with the fact that they feel more comfortable with a guy they can relate to. The girls we are talking about may be academically bright, but tend to be naive about things connected with culture, society, religion, etc. And I believe we are talking about party girls, since this is a thread about meeting girls in nightclubs. Perhaps, 'sophistication' is a more appropriate word than 'intelligence' here.

Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]


I don't agree with the first statement. Being loser gives you more chance than appearing as a loser. I think their intuition allows them to separate the men (read losers) from the boys (read fake losers).

Love / Poland reverse of fortune in dating [124]


You already know the guy is not a native speaker of English. I wonder if you can speak a foreign language as well? I didn't think so.

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Yes, I've seen such strange things. The funny thing is that guys like that can end up with a much more attractive girl in Poland than their able-bodied handsome counterparts in other European countries. I do feel happy for those particular guys and I think it's great that Polish girls have given them a chance to experience the pleasures of life that they would otherwise miss out on.