natasia
13 Nov 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]
oh, don't be so daft - are you honestly saying you thought i meant it was only worth talking to a guy once you had checked his bank balance? of course not. but i did use to think that money, etc., didn't matter - and now i know i was WRONG. it does. impossible to deny that in our world. especially if you have two children who you love very much and want the best for (and i don't mean things like fast cars and lots of toys - i mean education, a room of their own, mind-broadening experiences, a stable, gentle, life - these things all cost money - and it is exhausting for only one of the partnership to provide that, along with the physical nurturing of the child - come off it - in your bonkers world, what exactly does the man do, then?)
Nathan - brak slow. You clearly have problems. I'm sorry for you, genuinely. Nobody said anything about my having a fat ass or wanting to sit at home all day ... I simply pointed out that in evolutionary terms, one does better as a woman if one has a strong, virile male who is able to provide for the female and young when they are both vulnerable and unable to do so for themselves. And fyi, sex when you are pregnant, as a woman, can be particularly nice as nobody is worrying about you getting pregnant, as you already are. But I won't bore you with my views on the importance of a healthy, loving sex life. That would presumably translate as my being a (life)-sucking whoe.
Gunslinger44, thank you. I love you. You understand what I was trying to say.
Yes, please pick me up on it ... I know ... but I did have something of a point, even if it is more complicated than that. And where people quell their instincts they can end up living very unhappy lives. (also, of course, they can where they allow their instincts to dominate and disrupt - but the point is that the instincts are there, and deserve recognition and understanding).
And the overall point was that perhaps we should not be so hard on Polish women ... they are only following their instincts, and are more up-front about it that other women. And, possibly, they will be happier and more satisfied for it ...
oh, don't be so daft - are you honestly saying you thought i meant it was only worth talking to a guy once you had checked his bank balance? of course not. but i did use to think that money, etc., didn't matter - and now i know i was WRONG. it does. impossible to deny that in our world. especially if you have two children who you love very much and want the best for (and i don't mean things like fast cars and lots of toys - i mean education, a room of their own, mind-broadening experiences, a stable, gentle, life - these things all cost money - and it is exhausting for only one of the partnership to provide that, along with the physical nurturing of the child - come off it - in your bonkers world, what exactly does the man do, then?)
It is all about sitting with a fat ass on a couch and spoil every evening when a husband comes home from work.
It can be better put as "easy-life-and-having-someone-to-suck-life-out-missiles".
Nathan - brak slow. You clearly have problems. I'm sorry for you, genuinely. Nobody said anything about my having a fat ass or wanting to sit at home all day ... I simply pointed out that in evolutionary terms, one does better as a woman if one has a strong, virile male who is able to provide for the female and young when they are both vulnerable and unable to do so for themselves. And fyi, sex when you are pregnant, as a woman, can be particularly nice as nobody is worrying about you getting pregnant, as you already are. But I won't bore you with my views on the importance of a healthy, loving sex life. That would presumably translate as my being a (life)-sucking whoe.
And in the same way, a woman is repulsed (generally) by a man with no apparent physical strength, no confidence, and little money. All those things are important for the security of her and the children she will bear.
Gunslinger44, thank you. I love you. You understand what I was trying to say.
The theory you describe is too simplified, and was created many decades ago based on animal studies. Today we have newer research.
Yes, please pick me up on it ... I know ... but I did have something of a point, even if it is more complicated than that. And where people quell their instincts they can end up living very unhappy lives. (also, of course, they can where they allow their instincts to dominate and disrupt - but the point is that the instincts are there, and deserve recognition and understanding).
And the overall point was that perhaps we should not be so hard on Polish women ... they are only following their instincts, and are more up-front about it that other women. And, possibly, they will be happier and more satisfied for it ...