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KasiaG   
18 Mar 2008
Love / Questions for a Polish girl - translation [33]

A lot of questions at the beginning of dating is something more and more common now. People do think they have less time to find the right one, and they seem to think that eliminating those not having the right answer to their every question will bring them closer to the ideal, one and only, forever and ever, etc. :)

And there will be lots of people arguing vehemently in favour of asking lots of questions.
I do agree this brings dating much closer to sales.. you need to be able to fit 'yourself' in these answers somehow.. and the other side doesn't get to know the person, just attitudes and opinions, that tend to change. :)

On the other hand, if at some point in life I was asking the right questions (the fundamental ones) from the very beginning, I'd be now 7 years younger.. :P

As to being silent or talkative in a relationship, this is obviously a totally different subject. Both are ok, it's up to people that live together that have to match.
KasiaG   
19 Mar 2008
Love / what is reasonable - he does not want me to go back to poland [55]

Angel, I think you just got yourself into a very toxic relationship, and it's pretty difficult for you to get out, not even because of love you feel for him (people do break up often, even if there's love, for other serious reasons), but because of the sick dependency you got yourself in. He knows how to push your buttons, and maybe you don't realize clearly now that no woman (sane one that is) would voluntarily agree on having a relationship of this kind.. You just keep focusing on thinking that you don't want to be without him, or that you won't be able to take it.

However, believe me, you will, and you'll be much better off without him, with time, when the pain goes away. It's easy to say, but I think if you hear it often, from many sources, it finally starts sounding reasonable.. :)